5 Reasons to Leave the Lights on for Sex

Last updated on: November 17, 2017 at 7:40 pm by Shaunti Feldhahn

5 Reasons to Leave the Lights on for Sex 2017-11-17T19:40:57+00:00 Shaunti Feldhahn

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Reason #1: When he knows you want him, it increases intimacy.

A husband is powerfully impacted by knowing his wife desires him. And few things signal “desire” more than when he sees his wife engaged in their time together. Men secretly feel so vulnerable when they approach their wives for intimacy: Do I measure up? Does she want me? Am I not enough for her? Sometimes a man will keep his guard up to avoid the sting of inadequacy if he senses his wife may not truly be all in. So, if he sees that you’re engaged, he can set all concerns aside, let down his guard, and take the risk of opening up emotionally. And that vulnerability leads to much greater intimacy.

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