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How to More Effectively Share your Faith

How to More Effectively Share your Faith

Last updated on: March 17, 2020 at 11:52 am by Rob Dalrymple

How to More Effectively Share your Faith 2020-03-17T11:52:23-08:00 Rob Dalrymple

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if anyone says to you, “here are the 10 keys to effective evangelism,” be cautious. They may well have good insights. But no one has the corner on sharing the Gospel with success.

I often hear people say that they want a class on how to share their faith with others. I understand fully this desire.

Many Christians want to share their faith but are afraid to do so.

Some are uncertain because they don’t think they have they know enough. Others are uncertain because they think they do not know how to do so.

The fact is that we will never know enough and that there is no perfect way to do it. We just need to get out there and tell the world about Jesus.

Now, if anyone says to you, “here are the 10 keys to effective evangelism,” or, “use these effective strategies for guaranteed conversions”, or, “win them over with this irresistible trick,” be cautious.

They may well have good insights. But no one has the corner on “sharing the Gospel with success.”

When we think about it, our theology tells us that those who come to Christ are called by Christ. This means that there is no way we can be certain that our “secrets” to sharing Christ will ultimately lead anyone to faith. No matter how good our presentation was. If they are not called by God, they will not repent.

At the same time, however, we can go about it the wrong way. So, here are some thoughts on how we might share the Gospel more effectively.

Pray for them
Really, truly, deeply, and consistently pray for them. We believe that it is only God who changes the heart! God is the one who calls! God is the one who saves! Prayer helps us see things the way that God sees them.

In addition, our motives and ego can so easily get in the way. So pray for ourselves also. That the Light of Christ might shine through us to them despite our sinfulness!

Be Genuine
Just be real with people. Love them. Care for them. Come alongside them. And live Jesus before them.

Love them for who they are. Don’t try to fix them. Don’t assume that they have to become like us to be saved! Sure, we hope that they will become more like Jesus each day. But, that is not a pre-requisite to being saved either! Being saved starts with recognizing that I am not like Jesus! I am a sinner. I need Jesus to change me!

Being real with people also means that we admit our faults and weaknesses. We believe that we are not perfect; so don’t pretend to be.

What to do next!
Invite them to church or a church event. Don’t worry if they say no. Just keep looking for ways to integrate them into your community. Allow them to journey to Christ.

Sure, some people have an experience in which they accept Christ. Some of us can name the day and time and place in which it happened. Others cannot. They just know that previously they were not a Christian and now they are. When that change took place, they do not know.

I remember a time when I was sharing the Gospel with someone. We met weekly and just read the Gospel of Matthew together. Sometimes we would discuss what we read. Sometimes we just kept reading. About 8 months later I asked, “why don’t you get baptized?” He was startled.

The reality, however, was that sometime during the previous 8 months he had become a Christian. He had gone from just reading and inquiring to believing and desiring. I could see the change. I don’t know when it happened. Neither did he.

Within a month, I had the pleasure of baptizing him!

Ask questions
An important part of loving people and sharing Christ with them is to ask them questions. Find out who they are.

As people talk they will let you know how they are struggling; what they are looking for. You will find that be listening to them you will learn easy entry points to bring Jesus into the conversation and into their lives.

Sometimes they will be closed to the Gospel. That is important to know! Give them time. Sharing the Gospel too forthrightly with such persons will only cause them to repel further. Just love them. Be there for them. Model Christ for them. Perhaps, on occasion you can insert the Gospel ever so gently into a conversation and then let it go. If it is received, perhaps it will be a seed that germinates over time. Later, you can tell them more.

Others may be struggling with something. Perhaps it is a loss that they cannot comprehend. They cannot accept Jesus because it doesn’t make sense how God could have allowed this to happen. By asking questions you will find this out and learn how to bring the Gospel to them personally.

Share your story
This is crucial. You may not think you have a story, but you do. Sharing your story let’s people know that you are real too. You have struggled with growing up in a broken family; or suffering a divorce; or the loss of a loved one. Let them know that you are just another person. You have struggles. Life is not perfect for you either.

Some people have this conception that they have to have it all together before they can become a Christian. The problem is accentuated when Christians pretend that they have it all together. We, for some reason, think we are supposed to let people know how great our life in Christ is. The result is that people are distanced from Christ because they think they will never have it all together!

So, to the Church I exclaim: “be real with people.” Don’t put on a face of something you are not. Sure, Christ has made my life infinitely better. But my life is still full of gaffs and blunders.

In hearing your story, people might come to find that there is hope for them too. If God can save people like us, then He can and will do so for them!

Answer questions
For some reason we Christians think that we not only have to our life perfectly together but that we have to know everything. We don’t know everything. And no one expects that we do!

So, be ready to answer people’s questions. But not with this supposed “I know it all” mentality. In fact, one of the best answers we can give is: “I don’t know.” Now this answer should be immediately followed by, “but let me find out.” Then go and find out and come back soon and let them know what you learned.

Also, in answering people’s questions, acknowledge them as good questions. What might seem as a simple question for you, might be the basis for a real struggle for someone else.

The fact is that I struggle with the problem of evil and suffering too. I don’t know why, or even pretend to understand why, God allows 25,000 people to die each day from starvation.

I do know this though. That God has done and is doing something about it! The beauty of the Gospel is that, though evil and suffering is the result of the mess that we made of this world, God has entered into our mess by sending His Son that we might live. This is it. I don’t get it. I don’t understand why there is so much evil in this world. But, I do get the fact that God has done something about it! My son lives because God’s Son died! There is no greater comfort to a grieving parent than that!

Let the Light of the Gospel Shine Forth in Our Lives as we Love One Another

Finally, we need to do a better job of loving each other! Jesus said that this is how they will know that we are Christians!

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