Thinking About the Priesthood? What Are You Afraid Of?

Last updated on: November 4, 2015 at 9:10 am by Deacon Greg Kandra

Thinking About the Priesthood? What Are You Afraid Of? 2015-11-04T09:10:32-05:00 Deacon Greg Kandra

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This week is Vocations Awareness Week — and today, right in the middle of it, marks the feast of the patron of seminarians, St. Charles Borromeo.

The web site Vianney Vocations has a very good post on the subject of vocational discernment. Share this with a young man you know, and check out the site for some excellent resources. Meantime, take a look at this sage advice:

If you’re a young Catholic man, perhaps priesthood has crossed your mind, but fear pushes the idea away:

My friends would laugh out loud if they heard I was thinking about the priesthood!

My parents would be shocked.

I’m scared to death of speaking in public.

I’m nowhere near holy enough.

I don’t want to give up sex.

I’ll be lonely.

Seminary may be too hard for me.

Being a priest looks boring.

These fears are very common, even for men who are already in seminary. But literally thousands of men have had the same concerns and then went on to become holy and effective priests.

The first principle to remember is that God does not speak through fear. Fear is a tactic of the Enemy to keep you from pursuing God’s will; it is like the bite of an animal that paralyzes its prey to keep it from moving. A man in fear will find it difficult to move toward God’s will.

So how do you overcome fear? Here are five ideas:

1) Turn your fears into concerns. You may have legitimate concerns about celibacy or preaching—but that is not the same as being afraid. Rather than feeling fear, look at the requirements of priesthood objectively. Sure, it’s true that priests need a certain level of self-control and ability for public speaking. These and many other areas require serious self-assessment. Yes, you probably will discover areas that need to change and improve. But go about your discernment with a cool head, not a heart full of fear.

2) Look to scripture for consolation: “Perfect love casts out all fear” (1 John 4:18). Recall that when Jesus called Peter (Lk 5:1-11), our first pope said, “Leave me, Lord, for I am a sinful man.” Jesus then assured him that there was nothing to fear in following him. Likewise, Jesus knows your difficulties and weaknesses. If you trust him and “cast your net into the deep,” all will be well.

3) Reflect on God’s love. Fr. Brett Brannen, in his book To Save a Thousand Souls, recommends this meditation when a man feels fearful: “God is infinite in power and he loves me infinitely. There is no snatching out of his hand. God will never send me where his grace cannot sustain me. If he asks me to do something difficult, like become a priest, he will give me the grace to do it. I will not fail because he is with me. And I will be happy because I am doing his will. Even if I lack some of the needed qualities, God will help me develop them. In his will lies my peace.”

4) Entrust your fears to the Blessed Mother. Recall that after the angel told Mary to “fear not”, she readily she accepted God’s will for her: “I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” Entrust your fears to her intercession, and she will help calm your heart and find the will of Jesus.

5) Remember what seminary is for. From a purely practical perspective, it’s comforting to know that if God calls you to be a priest, ordination is still years away. Seminary offers a period of intensive formation to help a man address his concerns, grow in holiness, and prepare for an effective priestly ministry. No man enters seminary ready to be a priest!

So as Pope Saint John Paul II reminded us so often throughout his pontificate: Be not afraid! Don’t let fear paralyze you. Instead, ask a priest you trust to help you with your concerns. Remain faithful to daily prayer, trust in God, and your heart will be at peace, no matter what your vocation.

And, from a few years ago, here’s a favorite short promotional video from the Diocese of Brooklyn.

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