The 9 forms of infidelity

August 4, 2016 by Dave Willis

The 9 forms of infidelity August 4, 2016 Dave Willis

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7. Trying to

7. Trying to “win” an argument with your spouse.

This one might have caught you off guard. We all want to “win” an argument, right? What could be wrong with that? Well, in marriage, you can’t approach disagreements as something one person wins and the other loses. To try to win at your spouse’s expense is actually a form of broken trust and loyalty, because you’re on the same team. You will either win together or lose together. To take a win-lose mindset in marriage is to say you’re on different teams. You’re adversaries instead of partners. That’s a divorce mindset; not a marriage mindset.