8 Ways to Ruin a Marriage

Last updated on: February 12, 2018 at 11:51 am by Dave Willis

8 Ways to Ruin a Marriage 2018-02-12T11:51:27-05:00 Dave Willis

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3. The Outsourcers.

These dysfunctional couples take the most sacred aspects of marriage (emotional support, friendship, acceptance, companionship and sometimes even sex) and “outsource” those roles to other people or pursuits. They may also escape into their career or hobbies if they find fulfillment in those arenas. They give the best of themselves to other people or pursuits at the expense of their marriage.

4. The Blamers.

These are the marriages where one or both spouses consistently blame the other for all the struggles in the marriage. These couples tend to have regular arguments (often heated) with no real resolutions. Even when they are not arguing, their communication still contains a great deal of sarcasm and nagging. They live in perpetual frustration with each other.

5. The Separatists.

These are the couples who never seem to fully grasp the partnership required for a healthy marriage. They live as two separate individuals with separate hopes, separate dreams, separate money (often separate bank accounts), separate hobbies, separate friends, and eventually, separate lives altogether. For more on this, listen to me reading this Free audio clip from my iVow: Secrets to a Stronger Marriage audiobook.

#6 happens way too often...

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