10 modern myths about marriage

Last updated on: November 8, 2017 at 10:35 am by Dave Willis

10 modern myths about marriage 2017-11-08T10:35:14-05:00 Dave Willis

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9. Our KIDS, need us so they should always come before our marriage.

9. Our KIDS, need us so they should always come before our marriage.

If you’re a parent, I’m sure you’d be willing to give your life for your kids. Parenthood takes that kind of selfless concern for our kids, BUT I’ve seen too many couples be “marriage martyrs” by sacrificing their marriage on the altar of parenthood. The parents wrongly assume that total devotion to the kids requires putting the marriage on autopilot. Those parents wake up one day to realize they have an “empty nest” AND an empty marriage! One of the greatest gifts you can give your children is the security that comes from seeing their parents in a loving, committed marriage. Have the kind of marriage that makes you kids actually want to get married someday!

10. If things aren’t working out in my marriage, I would probably be better off with SOMEONE ELSE.

When you face struggles, don’t look for an exit strategy. Don’t fantasize about a life with someone else. Work through your challenges together and you’ll come out stronger on the other side. Remember that a “perfect marriage” is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other!

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