Patheos

BuddhistCatholicContemplativeEvangelicalGeneral ChristianHinduJewishLatter-day SaintMuslimNew VisionsProgressive Christian

Beliefs

Topics

Columnists

Resource Library

Research Tools

Video

Podcasts

Thought Readers

Faith In Media Tracker

Newsletters

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Patheos

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Follow Patheos Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube

danpeterson

On Empathy

Last updated on: October 29, 2026 at 6:52 pm   by Dan Peterson

0 Comments

On Empathy 2026-10-29T18:52:46-06:00 Dan Peterson

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

 

Scary Jack O'Lantern

The holidays are almost upon us.  (Wikimedia Commons public domain image)

Happy holidays!

From the Babylon Bee, “Fake News You Can Trust”:  “IT’S GO TIME: Mormons Prepare For One Evening Of Year When Everyone Will Answer Their Door”

An ancient Christian image of Jesus as Good Shepherd

Jesus as the Good Shepherd, from the third century AD crypt of Lucina, in the Roman catacomb of Domatilla (Wikimedia Commons public domain image)

I find the results of this survey puzzling and potentially disturbing: “America’s deep religious divide over empathy.”  Why would Latter-day Saints score so low?  Why did they respond the way they did?

After all, according to Latter-day Saint understanding Jesus was the ultimate empath.  Indeed, his empathy is fundamental to his atonement:

He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief: and we hid as it were our faces from him; he was despised, and we esteemed him not.  Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted.  But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed. (Isaiah 53:3-5)

For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin. (Hebrews 4:15)

After a recitation of the trials and sorrows that Joseph Smith had suffered — indeed, while Joseph was languishing in the miserable jail at Carthage, Missouri — the Lord concluded by telling him that “The Son of Man hath descended below them all. Art thou greater than he?” (Doctrine and Covenants 122:8). And here is the teaching of the Book of Mormon prophet Alma the Younger:

And he shall go forth, suffering pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind; and this that the word might be fulfilled which saith he will take upon him the pains and the sicknesses of his people.

And he will take upon him death, that he may loose the bands of death which bind his people; and he will take upon him their infirmities, that his bowels may be filled with mercy, according to the flesh, that he may know according to the flesh how to succor his people according to their infirmities. (Alma 7:11-12)

Catacomb painting of Jesus as shepherd

Another mid-third-century painting of Jesus as the “good shepherd” from one of the Roman catacombs (Wikimedia Commons public domain image)

We believe Jesus to be compassionate beyond our comprehension.  “God is love,” say both 1 John 4:8 and 1 John 4:16.

And Jesus went about all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues, and preaching the gospel of the kingdom, and healing every sickness and every disease among the people.

But when he saw the multitudes, he was moved with compassion [ἐσπλαγχνίσθη] on them, because they fainted, and were scattered abroad, as sheep having no shepherd.  Then saith he unto his disciples, The harvest truly is plenteous, but the labourers are few; Pray ye therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he will send forth labourers into his harvest.  (Matthew 9:35-38)

Incidentally, the Koine Greek verb ἐσπλαγχνίσθη means “to be moved with deep compassion” or “to feel pity in one’s inward parts.”  It’s derived from σπλάγχνα (splanchna), which refers to the inner organs, bowels, or entrails (heart, lungs, liver).  In ancient Greek thought, the bowels were considered the physical seat of deep, visceral [!] emotions like love, grief, and mercy — reminiscent of modern English expressions like “gut-wrenching” and “feeling it in your gut.”  (See also 3 Nephi 17:6.)

Etymologically, empathy and compassion are very similar, though not identical.  In English usage, they’re somewhat distinct but closely related.  Empathy might be described as the ability to sense, share, and understand another person’s emotions or experiences from that person’s perspective — essentially “feeling with” someone.  Compassion, by contrast, is an emotional response that goes a step further than empathy alone, by combining empathetic understanding with an active, genuine desire or effort to relieve the other person’s suffering.  Empathy is a feeling that is a necessary foundation for compassionate action.  You might see it as the “driver.”

The English word empathy was evidently coined in 1908 by a psychologist named Edward B. Titchener as an English translation of the German aesthetic term Einfühlung (meaning “in-feeling”).  But it’s modeled on the ancient Greek word ἐμπάθεια (empatheia), which is in turn derived from the preposition ἐν (en), meaning “in” or “at,” and the root πάθος (pathos), meaning “passion,” “suffering,” or “feeling.”

The English word compassion literally means “to suffer with.”  It’s made up of the Latin prefix com-, meaning “with” or “together,” and the Latin verb pati/patior, which means “to suffer” or “to bear” — and which is pretty clearly cognate with the already-mentioned Greek root πάθος (pathos).   The combined Latin deponent verb compati means “to feel pity” or “to suffer together with.”  It seems to be an ecclesiastical loan-translation of the Greek word sympatheia, but it’s obviously closely aligned with empatheia, as well.

Teichert's Waters of Mormon

“Alma Baptizes in the Waters of Mormon” by Minerva Teichert (1888-1976)
Wikimedia Commons public domain image

So Jesus is described, scripturally, as empathetic and compassionate.  And, as his professed disciples, we’re trying to be Christlike:

Therefore, what manner of men ought ye to be? Verily I say unto you, even as I am. (3 Nephi 27:27)

Consider, for example, these words from Alma the Elder, as reported in the Book of Mormon:

And it came to pass that he said unto them: Behold, here are the waters of Mormon (for thus were they called) and now, as ye are desirous to come into the fold of God, and to be called his people, and are willing to bear one another’s burdens, that they may be light; Yea, and are willing to mourn with those that mourn; yea, and comfort those that stand in need of comfort, and to stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places that ye may be in, even until death, that ye may be redeemed of God, and be numbered with those of the first resurrection, that ye may have eternal life — Now I say unto you, if this be the desire of your hearts, what have you against being baptized in the name of the Lord, as a witness before him that ye have entered into a covenant with him, that ye will serve him and keep his commandments, that he may pour out his Spirit more abundantly upon you?

And now when the people had heard these words, they clapped their hands for joy, and exclaimed: This is the desire of our hearts.  (Mosiah 18:8-11)

Cupid? Really?

The so-called “Eros” statue at Piccadilly Circus is not really of “Eros” at all. It was intended to represent “Christian charity.” (Wikimedia Commons public domain image)

I’m hoping that the Latter-day Saints who responded to this survey don’t really believe empathy to be a bad thing.  In fact, if they’re active, communicant, believing members of the Church, I can hardly conceive of their believing empathy to be a negative trait.

So why would they answer the way they did?  I’ll offer a hypothesis.  Perhaps others can provide better suggestions.

Empathy can, I think, lead to errors of judgment.  We’re sometimes moved by pity or compassion to relax standards, even when such relaxation actually harms the person that we want to help.  It’s not really helpful, even to protect her self-confidence or self-image or to avoid causing hurt, to tell a young pupil that she got the sum right when, in fact, she got it wrong.  Giving money to an alcoholic on the street may be rather like giving drugs to an addict who is crying out miserably for a fix.  In this way, empathy can harm.

Is that a possible explanation for the low ranking of both Latter-day Saints and Evangelical Protestants in this survey?  Better ideas would be welcomed.

Posted from Park City, Utah

History and Religion

Travel and Religion

Uncategorized

compassion

empathy

Latter-day Saint

Mormon

religion

sympathy

Previous Post



October 28, 2026

Apostles and Prophets have counseled us on this matter

Recent Comments

0 | Leave a Comment

"There were many in the US that held strong anti-Japanese and anti-German attitudes after World ..."

Allen Wyatt


Apostles and Prophets have counseled us ..."

"Arab Israelis have citizenship. So do other groups who are not Jewish who are also ..."

John Pack Lambert


Apostles and Prophets have counseled us ..."

"I have a member of my elders quorum who is a native of Nigeria. It ..."

John Pack Lambert


Apostles and Prophets have counseled us ..."

""...my purpose is ministering to people. All people. Everywhere. And that would be hard to ..."

Giordano Klar


Apostles and Prophets have counseled us ..."


Browse Our Archives

Select a Category Uncategorized

Select a Month October 2026 September 2026 August 2026 July 2026 June 2026 May 2026 April 2026 March 2026 February 2026 January 2026 December 2025 November 2025 October 2025 September 2025 August 2025 July 2025 June 2025 May 2025 April 2025 March 2025 February 2025 January 2025 December 2024 November 2024 October 2024 September 2024 August 2024 July 2024 June 2024 May 2024 April 2024 March 2024 February 2024 January 2024 December 2023 November 2023 October 2023 September 2023 August 2023 July 2023 June 2023 May 2023 April 2023 March 2023 February 2023 January 2023 December 2022 November 2022 October 2022 September 2022 August 2022 July 2022 June 2022 May 2022 April 2022 March 2022 February 2022 January 2022 December 2021 November 2021 October 2021 September 2021 August 2021 July 2021 June 2021 May 2021 April 2021 March 2021 February 2021 January 2021 December 2020 November 2020 October 2020 September 2020 August 2020 July 2020 June 2020 May 2020 April 2020 March 2020 February 2020 January 2020 December 2019 November 2019 October 2019 September 2019 August 2019 July 2019 June 2019 May 2019 April 2019 March 2019 February 2019 January 2019 December 2018 November 2018 October 2018 September 2018 August 2018 July 2018 June 2018 May 2018 April 2018 March 2018 February 2018 January 2018 December 2017 November 2017 October 2017 September 2017 August 2017 July 2017 June 2017 May 2017 April 2017 March 2017 February 2017 January 2017 December 2016 November 2016 October 2016 September 2016 August 2016 July 2016 June 2016 May 2016 April 2016 March 2016 February 2016 January 2016 December 2015 November 2015 October 2015 September 2015 August 2015 July 2015 June 2015 May 2015 April 2015 March 2015 February 2015 January 2015 December 2014 November 2014 March 2014 August 2013 February 2012


Follow Us!

Follow Us on Facebook



TAKE THE

Religious Wisdom Quiz

What year did Martin Luther post his 95 Theses?

Select your answer to see how you score.

1401 1517 1492 1600

Related posts from Sic et Non

Family

Apostles and Prophets have counseled us on this...

Sic et Non

Family

"The Price of Faith? The Fire of Covenant!"

Sic et Non

Family

In praise of a former Dutch politician

Sic et Non

Family

On the perils of leaving one's basement

Sic et Non

TRENDING AT PATHEOS Latter-day Saint

America’s AI Lead Is Really a Management Story

Europe’s AI problem is not access to models. It is access to...

Snoopy and the Gift of an Ordinary Afternoon

Guest writer: Pilgrim. Dancing in the Leaves This autumn's news is much...

A Biblical Perspective about Animals and the New...

Since the 2004 publication of my book titled Heaven, I’ve heard easily...

One in Three U.S. Adults Have Experienced Religious...

Why do one in three Americans suffer from religious trauma? What's going...

Elevation Worship Visits St. Jude, Gifts Concert Tix

Elevation Worship, the Grammy- and Dove Award-winning contemporary Christian worship collective from...

Spooky Spirituality: The World is Stranger Than We...

How do you like your spirituality? Most of us prefer it to...

view all Latter-day Saint blogs

What Are Your Thoughts?leave a comment

Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Copyright 2008-2026, Patheos. All rights reserved.

Subscription Support Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In

Follow Patheos Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube