BuddhistCatholicContemplativeEvangelicalGeneral ChristianHinduJewishLatter-day SaintMuslimNew VisionsProgressive Christian
Beliefs
- Buddhist
- Catholic
- Contemplative
- Evangelical
- General Christian
- Hindu
- Jewish
- Latter-day Saint
- More Voices
- Muslim
- New Visions
- Pagan
- Progressive Christian
Topics
- Religion News
- Food and Religion
- Sports and Religion
- Religious Art
- Religious Music and Entertainment
- Religious Events
- History and Religion
- Style and Religion
- Politics and Religion
- Women in Religion
- Recreation Outdoors and Religion
- Business Finance and Religion
- Careers Workplace and Religion
- Education and Religion
- Family Parenting and Religion
- Health Fitness and Religion
- Home and Religion
- Relationships and Religion
- Technology and Religion
- Travel and Religion
Columnists
- Buddhist Columnists
- Business Finance and Religion Columnists
- Careers Workplace and Religion Columnists
- Catholic Columnists
- Contemplative Columnists
- Education and Religion Columnists
- Evangelists Columnists
- Family Parenting and Religion Columnists
- General Christian Columnists
- Health Fitness and Religion Columnists
- Hindu Columnists
- History and Religion Columnists
- Home and Religion Columnists
- Jewish Columnists
- More Voices Columnists
- Latter Day Columnists
- Muslim Columnists
- New Visions Columnists
- Nonreligious Columnists
- Pagan Columnists
- Politics and Religion Columnists
- Progressive Columnists
- Recreation Outdoors and Religion Columnists
- Relationships and Religion Columnists
- Religion News Columnists
- Religious Art Columnists
- Religious Events Columnists
- Religious Music and Entertainment Columnists
- Sports and Religion Columnists
- Style and Religion Columnists
- Technology and Religion Columnists
- Travel and Religion Columnists
- Women in Religion Columnists
Resource Library
- 2026 Calendar
- Library of World Religions
- The 100 Most Holy Places on Earth
- Patheos Answers
- Podcasts
- Videos
- Faith Leaders Database
- Anglican Episcopalian
- Bahai
- Baptist
- Buddhism
- Christianity
- Confucianism
- Eastern Orthodoxy
- Hinduism
- Holiness and Pentecostal
- ISKCON
- Islam
- Judaism
- Lutheran
- Methodist
- The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
- New Age
- Paganism
- Presbytarian and Reformed
- Protestantism
- Religion Behind the Scenes
- Roman Catholic
- Scientology
- Shia Islam
- Sikhism
- Sufism
- Sunni Islam
- Taoism
- Zen
- See all religions
Research Tools
Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support
Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support
- Trending:
- Forgiveness
- |
- Marriage
- |
- Consciousness
- |
- Death Penalty
- |
- Election
- |
- Halloween
Daffey Thoughts
- Home
- Catholic
- Skating on thin ice: a parable
Skating on thin ice: a parable
Last updated on: November 15, 2010 at 9:07 am by Dave Griffey
Skating on thin ice: a parable 2010-11-15T09:07:00-04:00 Dave Griffey
Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.
Imagine a pond. Beside the pond is a sign that says ‘Stay Off, Thin Ice.’ Now consider an individual who wants more than anything to skate on the ice. Now imagine there are two individuals next to him. One is a conservative. One is a liberal. The conservative says, “Don’t do it. If you do and fall through the ice, you’re on your own. Don’t see why I should help. You know better.”
The liberal says, “If you feel compelled to do it, for whatever reason, go ahead. Don’t worry, we’ll get you out somehow. Even if others have to die to save you, or we have to deplete our accounts to build rescue equipment, it doesn’t matter. The important thing is doing what you are driven to do. Follow your passions, your desires, above all things. There is nothing that shouldn’t be sacrificed in order for you to do what you want, or what you are compelled to do by your own desires.”
And therein lies the problem. Our modern division between liberal/conservative is one that has done little to help the average person. After all, how many people look around today and say ‘gee, things are better than they’ve ever been!’? We’ve reached a point where most old values have been discarded, and we are encouraged to do what we want to do. Despite our tendencies to be compassionate, we are given plenty of excuses to let people stew in their own juices. And yet there is nothing out there to suggest we really are happier, better off, more fulfilled than ever before.
In fact, just the opposite. Whether it’s a pandemic of teenage suicides, unprecedented levels of drug dependency, or a genera malaise toward living, the indicators are that a vast sea of people in our nation are feeling left out, missing something, floundering in the wake of two ideological warships locked in mortal combat.
The reason could be the extremes from which we are left to choose. It shouldn’t be ‘do what you want, consequences be damned’, not matter why you may want it. Nor should it be ‘everyone for themselves, if you screw up, you’re on your own.’ A good, Christian, alternative should be, “Hey, don’t skate on the thin ice. No matter what, no matter why you want to. Don’t risk if. It could be thin. You could break through and die. And others could be impacted by your decision. But know this everyone else: sometimes humans in their weaknesses will sneak out and try the ice just because they are human. When that happens, we should work together to do what we can and save them.”
In the same way, Jesus handled a situation many years ago on the streets of Jerusalem. When a woman was dragged from the act of adultery and tossed at the feet of Jesus, the pundits of the day thought they had him where they wanted him. She was caught in the act of adultery. The Law of Moses makes it clear what must be done: death by stoning! But Jesus would have none of it. Famously, and in the part everyone loves to quote, Jesus asks that the one among them who is without sin cast the first stone. One by one the rocks, those rocks held in hand eager to do the throwing, begin to drop. Realizing the degree of their own sins, they got the point.
Then Jesus walked over to the woman. In another statement often quoted on shows like Oprah, and other post-modern venues, he asks her if there is anyone left to condemn her. No doubt shaken, she looks around at the thinning crowd and realizes that all who were there ready to stone her to death have dispersed. There is no one left. Jesus then says, “Neither do I condemn you.” Now this is one of the favorite passages by those on the more liberal side of the tracks. I’ve heard entire sermons centered around this line. This is telling the skater, “Don’t worry, no doubt you had to skate on the ice, it was beyond your control, it was you affirming your desires and passions. We would never, ever condemn or criticize you in any way for fulfilling your desires, no matter what the outcome.”
But Jesus doesn’t merely say, “Neither do I condemn you.” He says, “Neither do I condemn you, go and sin no more.” It’s that last part that is missing in our post-modern age. Sure, the sometimes self righteous condemnation from the right, or worse, the Darwinian philosophy of everyone for himself, can sound as cold and callous as a mob with stones in hand ready to pounce. But the other, that there is no condemnation which means there is no moral absolute, no truth beyond our right to fulfill our every desire, is no less flawed; no less disastrous, as the body count in the wake of the deplorable sexual revolution should more than attest.
It is the combination. The Christian faith says ‘there is no condemnation, but go and sin no more.’ For there is sin, sin for which we will all be held accountable. It is not ‘skate if you want, everyone else can suffer to affirm your desires.’ Nor is it ‘skate if you will, and if you fall through the ice, then screw you.’ It’s ‘don’t skate, because you and others could be hurt. But if you do, we’ll do everything we can to save you…so that you will never do such a thing again.’ Having that as the foundation of our modern value system could only help, given the disastrous legacy of the two fallacious choices with which we have been left in recent decades.
Previous Post

November 15, 2010
MSM continues its play by play of the hajj
Next Post

November 16, 2010 President Obama offers greetings to Muslims for Eid-ul-Adha
Browse Our Archives
Select a Category Abortion Atheism Awesome things Bigotry for the hip American Blogging Books Catholic Catholic Teaching Catholics on the Internet Christian Persecution Christian Unity Christianity and America Christianity in the Post-Modern World Christianity in the world Culture of Death Culture of Life Current Events Decline and Fall of the Christian West Defending Liberty Fun Stuff Global Warming Good Causes Good News Gun Control Health Care History Holidays Homeschool Humor Important things Inspiring Stories Interesting Insights Interesting Stories Islam and the West Liberal "Tolerance" Liberal observations Life in a post-Christian world Memorial Movies Musings News Other Blogs Our Big Politically Correct Bother Politics Popular Culture Post Modern Values Prayers Pro Life Promoting LGBT Protecting Liberty Racism in the world today Scientism Social Observations Sports Strange Stories The Boys The Catholic Church and the Left The Decline and Fall of the American Dream The end of liberty The Faith and the Left The Faith and the Right The Family The Greatness of God The Internet The Leftist Juggernaut The LGBT Question The Media The Pope The post-liberal Left The Power of Propaganda Tributes Twilight of the American Experiment Uncategorized Uneducating Postmoderns When the Church is wrong Why learn from history when we can repeat it instead Wisdom in the Post Modern Age World Events
Select a Month August 2017 July 2017 June 2017 May 2017 April 2017 March 2017 February 2017 January 2017 December 2016 November 2016 October 2016 September 2016 August 2016 July 2016 June 2016 May 2016 April 2016 March 2016 February 2016 January 2016 December 2015 November 2015 October 2015 September 2015 August 2015 July 2015 June 2015 May 2015 April 2015 March 2015 February 2015 January 2015 December 2014 November 2014 October 2014 September 2014 August 2014 July 2014 June 2014 May 2014 April 2014 February 2014 January 2014 December 2013 November 2013 October 2013 September 2013 August 2013 July 2013 June 2013 May 2013 April 2013 March 2013 February 2013 January 2013 December 2012 November 2012 October 2012 September 2012 August 2012 July 2012 June 2012 May 2012 April 2012 March 2012 February 2012 January 2012 December 2011 November 2011 October 2011 September 2011 August 2011 July 2011 June 2011 May 2011 April 2011 March 2011 February 2011 January 2011 December 2010 November 2010 October 2010 September 2010 August 2010 July 2010
Follow Us!
TAKE THE
Religious Wisdom Quiz
Who was cast into a pit by his brothers?
Select your answer to see how you score.
Daniel Jacob Moses Joseph
Related posts from Daffey Thoughts
If the Confederacy was the same as Nazi...
Best response to the lunacy of ESPN
Only fools and Catholics think it will end...
TRENDING AT PATHEOS Catholic
Why We Must Embrace Empathy, Sympathy And Compassion
Christians are meant to promote and engage empathy, sympathy and compassion, as...
Christ’s Two Natures And The Mystery Of Human...
The teaching of the incarnation is at the heart of the Christian...
Creation, Preservation, and Teleology in Catholic Theology
As I write this, it is very early Monday morning. Like millions...
Why I Choose the Eucharist Over the Sermon
Choose the Eucharist, Not the Sermon What are we supposed to get...
5 Design Elements Found in Spiritually Rooted Homes
Putting Spirituality Into Home Decor Our homes are more than our living...
Credo: A Story of God Told with the...
About 10 years ago, I began to imagine a personal "Credo" that...
view all Catholic blogs
Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support
- About Us
- 2026 Calendar
- Videos
- Podcasts
- Library of World Religions
- Faith In Media Tracker
- Advertise With Us
- Write for Us
- Privacy Policy
- Terms of Service
- Do Not Sell My Data
- Contact Us
- Radiant Digital
- Manage Newsletter Subscriptions
- Unsubscribe From Notifications
- Sitemap
Copyright 2008-2026, Patheos. All rights reserved.
Subscription Support Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In






