{"id":27154,"date":"2021-05-24T08:02:07","date_gmt":"2021-05-24T12:02:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/carlmccolman\/?p=27154"},"modified":"2021-05-24T08:02:07","modified_gmt":"2021-05-24T12:02:07","slug":"union-intimacy-and-love-the-dynamics-of-christian-mysticism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/carlmccolman\/2021\/05\/union-intimacy-and-love-the-dynamics-of-christian-mysticism\/","title":{"rendered":"Union, Intimacy, and Love: the Dynamics of Christian Mysticism"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

The best way to understand Christian mysticism (if \u201cunderstanding\u201d is even a possibility, given the mysterious nature of mysticism) is to approach it as a process: a developmental journey of how one relates to God.<\/p>\n

Process, Development, Journey, Relationship. Mysticism is dynamic, not static. More verb than noun. It\u2019s something we\u00a0do\u00a0<\/em>\u2014 in response to the love of God.<\/p>\n

Christian Mysticism begins with God. In this dance, God is Fred Astaire and the human being(s) \u2014 whether a single, individual, or the collective \u201cBody of Christ\u201d \u2014 is Ginger Rogers. God leads, we follow. God asks, we answer. God initiates, we respond.<\/p>\n

And what is at stake is more than just a dance. We are offered a\u00a0relationship<\/em> \u2014 there\u2019s a reason why marriage is a metaphor that shows up again and again in the writings of the mystics. Mysticism is a process of entering into an ever-deepening relationship with God: from an initial experience of longing or desire, to a gradual growth of friendship, intimacy, and love, to the consummating bliss of nondual union.<\/p>\n

In her masterpiece\u00a0The Interior Castle<\/a>,\u00a0<\/em>the Spanish mystic Teresa of \u00c1vila suggests that there are seven \u201cmansions\u201d or stages in the mystical life. A few centuries before her, the Flemish mystic Beatrice of Nazareth wrote a short treatise called \u201cThe Seven Manners of Divine Love\u201d (now published with her biography<\/a>). Like Teresa, she offers a model of seven phases or dimensions to the journey into the love of God. While I cannot dare to compare myself to either of these contemplative masters, I\u2019m borrowing their model of a seven-step journey for the mystical life, to chart my own understanding of how the process of an ever-deepening relationship with God might play out in many people\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n

Try not to see this as a strictly linear model of mysticism. Relationships are holistic, embodied and complex. I\u2019ve been married to my wife for over a quarter century now, and I am still learning new things about her \u2014 that\u2019s step one in my relationship model! I don\u2019t think this means I\u2019ve been a sub-par husband (although I suppose that\u2019s possible), but rather it shows how relationships are always imbued with mystery, and as two human beings grow and develop, a relationship will always yield new insights and now ways of understanding one another. What is true between two human beings is even more the case with God. In God\u2019s infinite splendor and ever-blossoming perfection, we mere mortals can expect the journey to union to be ever-in-process, so all the stages of this journey can, may, will happen simultaneously. This is not a ladder to climb, it is a country to dwell in, and in this country we can and will have access to all the ways of relating to God, at all times (which means, even a beginner might suddenly plumb the depths of nondual union \u2014 maybe only in a fleeting moment of ecstatic wonder, and always entirely in God\u2019s control \u2014 but it remains an ever-present possibility).<\/p>\n

So, here then, for your consideration: seven dimensions of the process of relating to God.<\/p>\n