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2018-11-26T13:30:22-04:00

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What To Do When Your Prayer Doesn’t Get ‘In The Zone’

Last updated on: November 26, 2018 at 1:30 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

A reader named Kevin wrote the following comment to me on Facebook, in response to my recent post Why Is “Mysticism” a Dirty Word. Thanks Carl, interesting points. I was wondering if I could pick your brain on something…when I meditate/contemplate on my breath (I have a semi regular habit) I only seem to get “in the zone” of a peaceful meditative state about 1 session in 10. The rest of the time not much happens. Is this normal? Am... Read more

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2018-12-05T16:57:32-04:00

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Contemplation and Grieving

Last updated on: December 5, 2018 at 4:57 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

A reader named Monika wrote the following comment and left it on one of my blog posts: I recently lost my husband of 49 years to a sudden brain tumor. I sold our home and cafe for economic reasons. I always wanted to live in quiet contemplation when the right time came. I think that it is here and I have nothing but grief blocking any inner peace I am looking for. Where do I start? All your posts seem so moving and... Read more

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2018-12-05T16:53:50-04:00

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Why Is “Mysticism” A Dirty Word?

Last updated on: December 5, 2018 at 4:53 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

In the introduction to her book Writing the Icon of the Heart, Maggie Ross makes this rather in-your-face claim: The word ‘mystic’… has, in my view, become entirely useless. It has acquired nuances of romanticism, exoticism and self-absorption. In addition, far too many studies of ‘mysticism’ and ‘spirituality’ are based on a modern and narcissistic notion of ‘experience’ as self-authenticating that corresponds neither to the way the brain works nor to notions of experience in the ancient and medieval worlds,... Read more

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2018-12-05T16:51:53-04:00

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Contemplation and Conflict, or, How the Prayer of Silence Changes the Way We Think About Possessions, Theft, and Just About Everything Else

Last updated on: December 5, 2018 at 4:51 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

I simply love this story of two desert fathers, which Thomas Merton recounts in his book The Wisdom of the Desert: There were two elders living together in a cell, and they had never had so much as one quarrel with one another. One therefore said to the other: Come on, let us have at least one quarrel, like other men. The other said: I don’t know how to start a quarrel. The first said: I will take this brick... Read more

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2018-11-26T13:27:57-04:00

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What Good is Religion? A Contemplative Perspective

Last updated on: November 26, 2018 at 1:27 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

Bloggers on Patheos have been asked to reflect on the question “What Good is Religion?” this month. I figured it might be worth pondering from a contemplative perspective. When I was a young man I was fond of saying that religion brought out the best in people and it brought out the worst in people. For the best, I’d cite Mother Teresa of Calcutta or Dorothy Day as exemplars. Nowadays I might add Desmond Tutu and Pope Francis to the... Read more

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2018-12-05T16:47:05-04:00

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Joyful Contemplation (No Fooling!)

Last updated on: December 5, 2018 at 4:47 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

If you are engaged in a serious and sustained practice of silent prayer and contemplative spirituality, then you need to be a very somber, sober, and serious person, for the mystical life is no laughing matter. . . . April Fool! I was inspired to write about this topic not only because today is April 1, but also because of what is arguably the single most problematic topic in the Rule of Saint Benedict — laughter. Consider these tidbits: Do not say foolish things... Read more

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2018-01-26T12:26:11-04:00

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You can do it, my friend: you can thrive with a daily practice of silent prayer

Last updated on: January 26, 2018 at 12:26 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

In my travels I hear a lot from people who get discouraged regarding silent prayer. Some folks tell me their minds race too much when they try to pray in silence. Others tell me they’re so busy, they just can’t seem to find the time to pray. Still others talk about how they get bored during their silent time, or fidgety, or overwhelmed with a feeling that they’re not making progress. My friends, it’s easy to get discouraged when embracing a... Read more

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2018-12-05T16:41:37-04:00

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Psalm 131: Humility, Silence and Hope

Last updated on: December 5, 2018 at 4:41 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

Sometimes I get asked “Where is contemplation in the Bible?” One obvious answer to this question is Psalm 131. It’s a short Psalm, only three verses. Here it is in its entirety from the Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (but every translation works): O Lord, my heart is not lifted up, my eyes are not raised too high; I do not occupy myself with things too great and too marvelous for me. But I have calmed and quieted my soul, like... Read more

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2018-11-26T13:24:24-04:00

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Rocking Justice & Spirituality: Like the Two Movements of the Breath

Last updated on: November 26, 2018 at 1:24 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

When I met the Anglican writer Kenneth Leech, who is one of my heroes, he told me a funny but sad story. I mentioned to him that one of my favorite books of his was The Eye of the Storm: Spiritual Resources for the Pursuit of Justice. I loved it (and still do) because it is an eloquent statement of why Christian spirituality necessarily includes a commitment to making the world a more peaceful and just place. He explained to... Read more

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2018-12-05T16:36:02-04:00

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“Just a touch of wildness” — or, How Evelyn Underhill schooled C. S. Lewis on the ways of God

Last updated on: December 5, 2018 at 4:36 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

One of my favorite contemplative authors from the early twentieth century — Evelyn Underhill — corresponded with another favorite author, C. S. Lewis. Underhill (1875-1941) was the leading English author on Christian mysticism in her day. Lewis (1898-1963) became renowned especially for his imaginative spiritual fiction. Several of her letters to him are preserved in The Letters of Evelyn Underhill, published shortly after her death in 1941. We learn from the letters that Lewis sent her at least two of his books,... Read more

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