Patheos

BuddhistCatholicContemplativeEvangelicalGeneral ChristianHinduJewishLatter-day SaintMuslimNew VisionsProgressive Christian

Beliefs

Topics

Columnists

Resource Library

Research Tools

Video

Podcasts

Thought Readers

Faith In Media Tracker

Newsletters

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Patheos

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Follow Patheos Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube

carlmccolman

2018-08-22T17:25:54-04:00

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

What’s The Point Behind Mary and Martha?

Last updated on: August 22, 2018 at 5:25 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

When I lead retreats, I often offer up a disclaimer: I am not an academic theologian, or a Biblical scholar, or any other kind of scholar for that matter. Which I don’t see as a handicap, since you don’t need a college degree to do the work of silent prayer. I try to be honest that I am a layperson, writing (or speaking) for other laypersons or for anyone interested in contemplative practice. Most of the time this is not... Read more

Contemplation

Scripture

Contemplation

discipleship

Luke 10:38-42

Mary and Martha

2018-08-10T08:04:23-04:00

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

Three Forthcoming Books On Silence You Won’t Want to Miss

Last updated on: August 10, 2018 at 8:04 am   By Carl "Skye" McColman

Over the next six months at least three noteworthy books on one of my favorite topics — silence — are scheduled to be published. So I thought I’ve give you a head’s up in case you might be as interested in these books as I am. Two of them will be out before Christmas, so you can put them on your wish list. Pablo d’Ors, Biography of Silence: An Essay on Meditation (October 2018) — A bestseller in the author’s... Read more

Books

Books

Jane Brox

Pablo d'Orz

Phileena Heuertz

silence

2018-08-14T20:06:12-04:00

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

Four Keys to a Contemplative Life (Courtesy of Psalm 37)

Last updated on: August 14, 2018 at 8:06 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

For years now I have loved Psalm 37, for it includes one of my favorite verses in all of scripture: Take delight in the Lord,     and he will give you the desires of your heart. (Psalm 37:4) But there’s much more to this Psalm than that one splendid verse, excellent as it is. I’ve been reading Alexander Ryrie’s Silent Waiting: The Biblical Roots of Contemplative Spirituality, which contains a lengthy chapter called “Waiting for the Lord in the Psalms.” This chapter includes commentary... Read more

Contemplation

Spirituality

Contemplation

contemplative prayer

contemplative spirituality

Psalm 37

Silent Waiting

2018-08-08T12:23:52-04:00

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

The Contemplative Charism of the Humble Haiku (Anam Ċara in Verse, Part II)

Last updated on: August 8, 2018 at 12:23 pm   By Guest Contributor

N.B. Today’s guest post is by Judith Valente, poet, Benedictine oblate, and author of How to Live: What the Rule of St. Benedict Teaches Us About Happiness, Meaning, and Community. To read the first post in this series, click here: Anam Ċara in Verse: How Poetry Is a Soul Friend.   Gray mist between trees Portal we pass through en route To new adventures — Judith Valente   There are times when a particular moment might grasp our attention. We stop, listen,... Read more

Poetry

haiku

Judith Valente

Paul Quenon

poetry

Thomas Merton

2018-08-03T10:29:17-04:00

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

Two Complementary Guides to Mystical Devotion

Last updated on: August 3, 2018 at 10:29 am   By Carl "Skye" McColman

Prayer and meditation — at least for people who believe in God, they go together like love and marriage (or a horse and a carriage). A few months ago The Little Book of Christian Mysticism was published. It’s a book I edited/curated, a collection of over 300 quotations from Christian mystics, arranged for devotional use. It’s meant to be a springboard for your personal meditation. The book features the wisdom of Julian of Norwich, Bernard of Clairvaux, Teresa of Ávila, John... Read more

Books

Essential Mystic Prayers

The Little Book of Christian Mysticism

2018-12-19T18:53:13-04:00

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

Discerning the Difference Between Healthy Self-Esteem and Toxic Selfishness

Last updated on: December 19, 2018 at 6:53 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

In response to my article The Self, Self-Esteem, and Dying to Self, one reader posted this question: So…I’m just curious but how do you suggest one can find a balance between the two? I agree with your article and I’m grateful that you mention how Christian culture can cause us to have low self esteem as I feel like that’s a large reason why I don’t like myself, however other times I fear I’m just selfish and narcissistic and I... Read more

Living the Faith

Self-Care

self-esteem

Self-Love

Self-Regard

2018-08-02T18:42:10-04:00

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

What To Do When Mystics Feel Like Misfits

Last updated on: August 2, 2018 at 6:42 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

In response to my recent article Why Are Mystics So… Weird?!?, one reader posted this comment/question: One thing I’d like to see some work on is reintegration. By this, I mean how to integrate with “polite Christian society” when you clearly don’t fit. … It’s one thing to be a Christian mystic in a monastery or nunnery, another to be a mystic in the local Baptist church. Living like this often gets one “invited to seek fellowship elsewhere.” … What about... Read more

Spirituality

Church conflict

conflict

Contemplation

Mysticism

Spiritual Direction

spirituality

2018-07-28T20:53:16-04:00

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

A Miscellaneous List of Books I Like (And Recommend)

Last updated on: July 28, 2018 at 8:53 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

I love booklists. I find browsing someone’s list of recommended titles is a great way to find a new treasure. This is an admittedly idiosyncratic list of books that I recommend for your consideration. Obviously I lead off with books on contemplation/mysticism, since that’s the main focus of this blog. But I wander a bit off topic as the list goes on… browse on, you’ll see for yourself. It’s an eclectic, ecumenical, and interfaith-friendly assortment. Books are like people — none are... Read more

Books

recommended books

recommended reading

2018-07-08T17:56:58-04:00

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

God Listens… Within You

Last updated on: July 8, 2018 at 5:56 pm   By Guest Contributor

Today’s guest post is by Mark S. Burrows, translator of Rilke’s Prayers of a Young Poet. Of Rainer Maria Rilke’s many extraordinary poems collected in Prayers of a Young Poet, #18 beckons us to an extraordinary insight, one startling for those already familiar with his writings or those for whom he is a complete unknown. To understand its frame of reference, remember that Rilke wrote these poems as if they were penned by an old Russian Orthodox monk and icon painter (or,... Read more

Mysticism

Poetry

Contemplation

God

Guest Post

listening

Mark S. Burrows

poetry

Prayers of a Young Poet

Rainer Maria Rilke

2018-07-25T15:04:59-04:00

LOGO Patheos Explore the world's faith through different perspectives on religion and spirituality! Patheos has the views of the prevalent religions and spiritualities of the world.

The Self, Self-Esteem, and Dying to Self: Contemplative Spirituality and the Ego

Last updated on: July 25, 2018 at 3:04 pm   By Carl "Skye" McColman

A reader of this blog named John wrote to me a while back and asked this question: In your opinion, what role does self worth play in faith and from where does self worth come? Since it’s a broad question, I wrote back to him to get a bit of clarification. In my response, I wrote: Many of us learn not to love ourselves, thanks to the toxicity of our culture and the fact that so many families are wounded.... Read more

Spirituality

dying to self

self-esteem

Self-Worth

spirituality

Follow Us!

Follow Us on Facebook Follow Us on Twitter



TAKE THE

Religious Wisdom Quiz

How did God protect Daniel in the lion’s den?

Select your answer to see how you score.

He made the lions fall asleep He sent an angel to shut the lions’ mouths He made Daniel invisible He blinded the guards

Support this
Column


Browse Our Archives

Select a Category Activism Announcements Art Books Catholicism Celtic Christianity Christian mysticism Christianity Contemplation Current events Etc. Family humor interfaith dialogue Interfaith Wisdom Interspirituality Lay Cistercians Living the Faith Meditation movies Mysticism Mystics nature Poetry Reviews Scripture silence Spirituality Uncategorized Writing

Select a Month February 2025 January 2025 November 2024 September 2024 August 2024 July 2024 June 2024 May 2024 March 2024 January 2024 December 2023 November 2023 August 2023 June 2023 April 2023 March 2023 February 2023 January 2023 December 2022 November 2022 October 2022 September 2022 August 2022 July 2022 June 2022 May 2022 April 2022 February 2022 January 2022 December 2021 November 2021 October 2021 September 2021 August 2021 July 2021 June 2021 May 2021 April 2021 March 2021 February 2021 January 2021 December 2020 November 2020 October 2020 September 2020 August 2020 July 2020 June 2020 May 2020 April 2020 March 2020 February 2020 January 2020 December 2019 November 2019 October 2019 September 2019 August 2019 July 2019 June 2019 May 2019 April 2019 March 2019 February 2019 January 2019 December 2018 November 2018 October 2018 September 2018 August 2018 July 2018 June 2018 May 2018 April 2018 March 2018 February 2018 January 2018 December 2017 November 2017 October 2017 September 2017 August 2017 July 2017 June 2017 May 2017 April 2017 March 2017 February 2017 January 2017 December 2016 November 2016 October 2016 September 2016 August 2016 July 2016 June 2016 May 2016 March 2016 February 2016 January 2016 December 2015 November 2015 October 2015 September 2015 August 2015 July 2015 June 2015 May 2015 April 2015 March 2015 February 2015 January 2015 December 2014 November 2014 October 2014 September 2014 August 2014 July 2014 June 2014 May 2014 April 2014 March 2014 February 2014 January 2014 December 2013 October 2013 September 2013 July 2013 May 2013 January 2013 December 2012 November 2012 August 2012 July 2012 June 2012 March 2012 December 2011 September 2011 October 2010 August 2010 March 2010 September 2009 July 2008 January 2008 December 2007 September 2007 February 2007 January 2007 December 2004


TRENDING AT PATHEOS Contemplative

Handy Contemplative Practices for Political Spaces

A Spiritually Grounded Presence In order to bring a spiritually grounded presence...

Halloween: The Holiday of Loving Your Neighbor

All Hallows Eve Is Halloween the least Christian holiday in America, or...

Can Love Be Saved? Some Thoughts on the...

Happy Valentine's Day! I recently published a post on Patreon called Can...

"This Loving, Uniting Embrace": the Holy Ordinary

Today's guest post is by Mark Longhurst, author of The Holy Ordinary:...

How Are We Called to Live?: More About...

How Are We Called to Live? Many of us struggle with discerning...

A Spiritual Practice of Reading: Join Us Online

A Spiritual Practice of Reading A healthy spiritual practice of reading is...

view all Contemplative blogs

Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube

Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In Subscription Support

Copyright 2008-2026, Patheos. All rights reserved.

Subscription Support Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In

Follow Patheos Patheos on Facebook Patheos on YouTube