Doula Me

Last updated on: June 8, 2010 at 6:17 pm by Bethany "B-mama"

Doula Me 2010-06-08T18:17:00-06:00 Bethany "B-mama"

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To piggyback on Red’s previous post, doulas seem to be an awesome way to achieve natural labor within a hospital setting. As a labor advocate, the doula will step in to represent your birth wishes amidst the intensity of natural labor, allowing both wife and husband to remain focused on the birth. The doula’s knowledge and expertise can also provide additional options for labor positions and alternatives to medication.

I have just found a FREE doula-in-training who is going to be present for our birth! Can you sense my enthusiasm?! We met with her last night and I believe she is going to be the perfect compliment to my husband and I in the delivery room. What an absolute blessing to find her with less than two weeks until my due date… God was listening as my husband and I pondered our options Saturday night before bed. He was expressing some apprehension about being my labor coach with so little experience and only a few chapters of Husband Coached Childbirth (Bradley) under his belt. I stood my ground, knowing labor is primarily my job, but also filling with worry as my #1 labor guy fell to fear.

“Do you think we should look for a doula?” he said. (I had wondered this same question aloud a month before, but we overlooked it at the time.) “I don’t know, honey,” I replied, “They are expensive and you convinced me that if I did it last time, I can do it again.” “Yeah, but Jay at the office says sometimes you can find them for free or reduced cost due to them being in training” he said. “Yeah, but where in the world are we going to find a free doula who would be willing to take us on so late in the game?!” I questioned…

God answered! The very next day at a baby shower as I shared with a friend my desire to have a natural birth, she recommended her friend who was a doula-in-training and doing her first three labors for FREE. How great is that?! We will be birth #3. My natural labor has just become a little more achievable! I’m totally stoked.

So here’s where you all come in. What should I tell my doula? What specific instructions were you glad you gave to your doula or midwife before your natural delivery? What words did you appreciate hearing? Should I have the doula come over to our house before we head to the hospital? I am swimming in thoughts and would love your insight!! Thanks!

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