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April 2023

April 20, 2023

The Good Thing About Being the Bad Guy, Part 1

This is a two-part blog to encourage and equip parents of teenagers. In this part...

May 2022

May 04, 2022

Honoring All the Mothers (Who Are Loving the Kids They’ve Got)

Special note: If you are struggling with Mother’s Day due to any number of complex...

April 2022

April 26, 2022

Three Great Ways to Handle Drama

These are three super-simple steps that usually speak to the heart of a “dramatic,” upset...

April 05, 2022

A Different Perspective on Teens—and How to Talk to Them

Many of our kids, to some degree or another, have been hearing our warnings about...

March 2022

March 02, 2022

Talking To Your Young Adults About the Ukraine Invasion

We need to be fervently praying for wisdom for our leaders and ourselves about how...

February 2022

February 22, 2022

We’ve Got 40 Hours

Commit to being present with your child. A guest blog by Katie Kenny Phillips.

August 2021

August 12, 2021

5 Things Every Parent Needs to Know as Kids Go Back to School This Year

In this back-to-school season, there are a lot of anxieties—and a lot of opportunities. Let's...

June 2021

June 08, 2021

Why Teenage Boys Should Be Courageous and Ask the Girl Out!

Guys, to build yourself as a person and as a leader, it is so crucial...

May 2021

May 11, 2021

A Letter To Our 2021 Graduating High School Seniors

Here are a few things we want you to know as you head off into...

March 2021

March 23, 2021

How to Raise a Resilient Child and Why It Matters

Resilience is perhaps the most important quality a person can have, and, therefore, perhaps the...

March 09, 2021

5 Ways Parents Can Raise Leaders

Today we are sharing a guest blog from Alli Worthington while Shaunti is in this...

November 2020

November 10, 2020

This One Thing Makes a Huge Difference for Your Teen

Parents, I have some encouraging news for you. Although we’re all suffering from just a...

October 2019

October 28, 2019

Tips For Talking to Your Teen About Schedule Overload

The new school year is in full swing (wait, didn’t we just take those “first...

September 2019

September 13, 2019

How to Encourage Your Teen to Talk to You More

Summer is over and school is back in session! (Although here in the South, we’re...

March 2019

March 19, 2019

Help Your Teen Avoid Social Media Comparison

Erica’s teenage daughter took out her phone for her daily ritual—taking photos of her outfit...

October 2018

October 26, 2018

Do You Want to Influence Your Teen’s Value Choices? Here’s How

Karen didn’t even need to glance at her daughter’s facial expression—she just heard the vocal...

May 2018

May 23, 2018

2 Secrets to Communicating With Your Teenager

“How was school?”  (Shrug.) “Fine.”  “What did you do?”  (Shrug.) “Nothing.”  “Anything fun happen today?” (Side...

May 11, 2018

4 Truths You Need to Know About Your Son and Visual Temptation

Even after years of being a social researcher and learning what is in the hearts...

March 2018

March 23, 2018

4 Reasons Your Teen Needs You To Be the Parent (Not a Friend)

As parents, we’ve all probably experienced the classic toddler temper tantrum—complete with them collapsing on...

March 09, 2018

4 Crucial Things Daughters Need To Hear from their Dads

The daddy/daughter dances. The skinned knees and kissed boo-boos. Watching recitals, cheering at games, drying...

February 2018

February 16, 2018

3 Things to Remember With Your Drama Queen Daughter

Do you have a teen or pre-teen daughter at home? Ever gotten frustrated at her...

October 2017

October 30, 2017

4 Reasons Parents Need to Be The Boss

It wasn’t really a thing before the title song of the hit comedy series Malcolm...

May 2017

May 15, 2017

Four Fantastic Facts to Know about Your Prickly Teen

If you’re a parent of a teenager, you’ve probably experienced the eye roll or utter...

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