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March 2023

March 09, 2023

How Kind Are You?

We teach our children to be kind to others. We remind a struggling friend to...

January 2023

January 03, 2023

Don’t Should On Yourself

The temptation is to “should” on yourself – to beat yourself up. (“I can’t believe...

September 2022

September 08, 2022

The Big Blind Spot That Is Messing With Your Relationships

Nearly all of us value kindness. We try to be kind to others. We teach...

July 2022

July 25, 2022

Want to Fight Anxiety? Point Out the Positive!

It’s a fact there are so many beautiful things going on in our world—and in...

January 2022

January 25, 2022

Let’s Bring Kindness Back! Here’s How To Start

These three daily actions make up the 30-Day Kindness Challenge and they are absolutely transformative...

January 18, 2022

Male-Bashing Is Really No Joke!

Faithful, capable, responsible men are all around us. But if you watch TV, movies or...

January 04, 2022

Want A New Year’s Resolution That Will Actually Make a Real Difference?

There’s something helpful about New Year’s and the chance to evaluate what has worked well...

July 2021

July 27, 2021

Change The World With Kindness, One Person At A Time

Being willing to be an agent of change happens one person at a time.  

June 2021

June 29, 2021

How NOT to Make Things Worse When We’re Angry

While doing research for The Kindness Challenge, I realized something important: when we are angry,...

May 2021

May 25, 2021

How I Stopped Yelling at My Kids

Today we are sharing a guest blog from Crystal Paine while Shaunti is in this season...

May 20, 2021

This One Habit Will Be Game-Changing for Others … and Yourself!

Kindness is a superpower. It can improve relationships, make life better, and transform our culture....

March 2021

March 25, 2021

Finding Joy in the Most Unlikely Places

True community is created by encouragement of others—even in the most difficult of circumstances.

March 23, 2021

How to Raise a Resilient Child and Why It Matters

Resilience is perhaps the most important quality a person can have, and, therefore, perhaps the...

December 2020

December 17, 2020

These Holiday Gifts Are The Most Valuable To The People You Love

Instead of spending your time and money getting people more stuff, plan to give something...

November 2020

November 05, 2020

My Gift to You: A Devotion from “Find Joy”

Hello Friends, November ushers us into a season when we are more intentional about reflecting...

November 03, 2020

For the Next Few Weeks, We Have a Choice to Make

In a few hours, the polls will close. And for the next few days or...

October 2020

October 01, 2020

PART 2—The Election Probably Won’t Be Over on November 3 (and How Churches Can Respond)

This is the second article of a two-part series. Part 1 shared why it is...

July 2018

July 16, 2018

Two Steps to Positively Handle Adult Bullying

Back in graduate school, I clashed repeatedly with one of my classmates, a guy with...

May 2018

May 17, 2018

Negative Wife, Negative Life? Not Necessarily!

Nate and Kathryn are working to improve their marriage, but Nate has a pet peeve...

March 2018

March 06, 2018

3 Reasons You Should NOT Gossip About Your Husband (and One Reason You Should!)

We all want happy marriages. You want to love hanging out with your husband every...

March 05, 2018

6 Ways Sarcasm is Hurting Your Relationships

The movie Lily’s husband had picked out for them to watch made her hoot with...

February 2018

February 23, 2018

Don’t Be a Hothead! 4 Key Strategies for Keeping Your Cool

Most of us think that letting a little steam out of the kettle now prevents...

December 2017

December 21, 2017

The Most Important Gifts You Can Give This Season

It’s that time of year again. Black Friday. Cyber Monday. Only this many shopping days...

November 2017

November 21, 2017

The Secret to Enjoying a Conflict-Free Holiday

“Let It Go” is a hard-core success strategy for giving yourself — and those around...

October 2017

October 23, 2017

Want a happy marriage? 3 Ways to Nix All Marriage Negativity

There’s a couple I know who just seems to have their act together. They’re a...

August 2017

August 01, 2017

What You Need to Survive the Flight from Hell (Featuring a Screaming Baby)

Have you ever been in this awkward situation – and wondered what on earth to...

July 2017

July 17, 2017

3 Sneaky Ways You’re Making Yourself Stressed

Do you have any idea what is the most frequent command in the Bible?  Believe...

July 04, 2017

2 Reasons You Should NOT be Independent

You might look at that title and raise an eyebrow. Isn’t independence what we are going...

June 2017

June 19, 2017

The Secret to Being a Wife He Adores

In the research for For Women Only and The Kindness Challenge, I’ve seen an overlooked,...

May 2017

May 30, 2017

Here Is the Simple Key to Kindness and Joy

“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be...

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