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September 2022

September 20, 2022

Need Rest? Finding It May Look Different for Men and Women

Did you know that finding rest may look different for men and women? Even after...

August 2022

August 11, 2022

Why Can’t We Just Go To Sleep?

Many men have asked me over the years, Why is it that my wife so...

July 2022

July 13, 2022

How to Read Your Wife’s Mind

This article is part of our ongoing initiative to help engaged and newlywed couples start...

July 07, 2022

Top Marriage Advice for Newlyweds (and Everyone Else) About Men and Women

This series has been designed to equip engaged and newlywed couples—and anyone else trying to...

June 2022

June 30, 2022

Top Marriage Advice for Newlyweds (and Everyone Else) About Sex

Here are three key tips about intimacy that will help avoid common issues and create...

May 2022

May 19, 2022

Top Marriage Advice for Newlyweds (and Everyone Else) About Making a Happy Marriage

Your spouse almost certainly deeply cares about and appreciates you. But they won’t live that...

March 2022

March 22, 2022

Does Marriage Matter? This Study Says Yes

Is marriage optional? Does it matter if I get married? Does it matter if fewer...

February 2022

February 15, 2022

How To Inspire More Romance From Your Man

Ladies, was your Valentine’s Day a little… disappointing? You might be surprised to learn that...

December 2021

December 07, 2021

He’s Retiring! What Happens Now?

Retirement is a life change, for sure. But “change” doesn’t have to mean trouble. Here...

November 2021

November 30, 2021

Mixing Fear with Money and Marriage

Although insecurities lie deep within us, there are simple ways of addressing them.

November 16, 2021

This One Secret Is A Game-Changer For Any Relationship

If we can just keep in mind one thought the next time we assume a...

September 2021

September 28, 2021

Does Your Husband Shut Down When You Ask Questions? Here’s Why

If you’ve ever seen your man shut down when you think you’re just asking questions...

August 2021

August 05, 2021

When You’ve Found “The One” Go All In

A lifelong commitment provides a secure foundation for persevering through the valleys that are part...

July 2021

July 13, 2021

4 Reasons Why Wives Can Feel Insecure

There are definite reasons wives keep checking in on the state of their marriage relationship....

June 2021

June 29, 2021

How NOT to Make Things Worse When We’re Angry

While doing research for The Kindness Challenge, I realized something important: when we are angry,...

June 15, 2021

Here’s What Your Man Is Really Thinking

If we want to improve our relationship with the man we love, we must be...

June 10, 2021

When the Enemy is Attacking Your Marriage

Five actions to take when your marriage is under attack. By Ashley Willis.

June 04, 2021

Recognize Your Man’s Romantic Intent When He Wants to Do Things Together

Most men (84%!) care about romance just as much as their wives do! Romance often...

May 2021

May 27, 2021

Divorce Rates are NOT What You Think They Are!

The divorce rate for society as a whole is not 50% and has never been...

May 20, 2021

This One Habit Will Be Game-Changing for Others … and Yourself!

Kindness is a superpower. It can improve relationships, make life better, and transform our culture....

April 2021

April 28, 2021

A Prayer That Left Me Gloriously Ruined

We often hear pastors contemplate the Fatherhood of God, a wonderful and true doctrine. But...

April 08, 2021

Four Phrases Your Wife Would Love To Hear From You

Husbands, when your wife is facing tough times or is weary, and it’s in your...

March 2021

March 30, 2021

Make Your Marriage Happier By Keeping Score And Giving Back

Have you ever found yourself keeping a list in your head of the wrongs (big...

March 18, 2021

Stop Hooking Up In Your Marriage

One of the foundational truths about sex is that God designed it to be intertwined...

March 11, 2021

Make Sure Your Wife Knows That She’s Beautiful to You!

Men, your wife—at her most decked out and when she’s a bit disheveled—needs to know...

March 02, 2021

When She Wants Sex More Than He Does

Both in Christian and secular cultures, the message we’ve long heard is that men want...

February 2021

February 23, 2021

Help Make Your Marriage Great By Being Grateful For Your Spouse

Have you ever been around one of those couples who just never seem to have...

February 18, 2021

Put The “Fun” Back in Your Marriage

“Highly happy couples aren’t just spending time together because they’re happy; a big part of...

February 16, 2021

The Sex & Conversation Series, Part 3: “If My Spouse Loved Me, They Would WANT To Do What Warms My Heart!”

Would it surprise you to know that there are multiple ways most of us have...

February 11, 2021

Here’s How To Be Romantic All Year, Not Just On Valentine’s Day

I’m curious. What is your attitude each year when Valentine’s Day rolls around? Happy anticipation...

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