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June 2021

June 29, 2021

How NOT to Make Things Worse When We’re Angry

While doing research for The Kindness Challenge, I realized something important: when we are angry,...

May 2021

May 25, 2021

How I Stopped Yelling at My Kids

Today we are sharing a guest blog from Crystal Paine while Shaunti is in this season...

May 13, 2021

Joy Comes In the Morning: It’s OK to Resolve Your Disagreement Tomorrow

Sometimes the stress of work, family, and finances simply leaves spouses too drained to work...

May 04, 2021

When Your Triggers Get Tripped In Relationships

Ask yourself, what is the number one thing that is putting you over the edge?...

January 2021

January 12, 2021

How To Tame Your Temper When You’re About To Lose It

In my research I’ve found that when we are angry with a friend or family...

August 2018

August 08, 2018

When You Criticize and He Withdraws, This is What’s Really Happening

According to Deborah, her husband Marcus has an anger problem, and she doesn’t know how...

February 2018

February 01, 2018

2 Reasons Why Your Man Hates Conflict

Women sometimes feel like the only reason men walk away is that they are angry...

November 2017

November 06, 2017

Transform Your Relationship With This One Simple Rule

In our research with men, it was clear that one of a man’s most painful...

June 2017

June 30, 2017

4 Tricks to Control Your Temper When You Want to Explode

While doing some research for my next book, I realized something important: when we are...

December 2016

December 15, 2016

4 Ways to Keep your Temper When You Want to Blow

While doing some research for my next book, I realized something important: when we are...

April 2016

April 05, 2016

4 Ways To Keep Your Temper When You Want to Blow

While doing some research for my next book, I realized something important: when we are...

March 2015

March 30, 2015

Don’t Freak Out Over His Need for Space

Dear Shaunti: My husband and I haven’t been married very long, and I am scared...

March 30, 2015

Don’t freak out when your man handles an argument….like a man

Dear Shaunti: My husband and I haven’t been married very long, and I am scared...

February 2015

February 16, 2015

What Women Want … In a War of Words

Dear Shaunti, The other day, I got into a huge fight with my wife. I...

February 03, 2015

Think Before You Ask: The Statements Your Questions Make

It is one thing for your future husband to know that you have an inquisitive...

December 2014

December 08, 2014

His Temper May Be Fiery, But Your Criticism Is Explosive Fuel

Dear Shaunti: My husband has an anger problem, and I don’t know how to handle...