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April 2025

April 08, 2025

How to Deal with Difficult People (part 2)

If someone is being “difficult,” maybe they’re deeply unhappy and isolated. Maybe they are in...

September 2024

September 17, 2024

“Election Edition” of the 30-Day Kindness Challenge

we’ve adapted that original challenge into a special “Election Edition” of the 30-Day Kindness Challenge....

February 2024

February 13, 2024

What Husbands Need Most From Their Wives (Part 1)

This is the first part of a multi-part series on what our spouses need, but...

January 2024

January 09, 2024

What an Attitude Adjustment Can Teach Us

If we want to make changes in our lives and relationships in the new year,...

November 2023

November 28, 2023

Solutions for Sarcasm? Yeah, Right. (Nix the Negativity Series, Part 3)

At its best, sarcasm and joking around can create levity in hard situations. We all...

November 21, 2023

From Grumbling to Grateful! (Nix the Negativity Series, Part 2)

Even though most of us want to think we’re glass-half-full types, we all grumble and...

November 14, 2023

Always Suspicious of Your Spouse (or Others)? Here’s What To Do! (Nix the Negativity, Part 1)

Suspicion. We can descend into that spiral with a spouse, friend, or colleague without ever...

March 2023

March 09, 2023

How Kind Are You?

We teach our children to be kind to others. We remind a struggling friend to...

December 2022

December 20, 2022

Two Simple Steps to Transform Christmas Get-Togethers

From shopping, cooking, wrapping, and year-end work projects, we all have enough to do this...

September 2022

September 08, 2022

The Big Blind Spot That Is Messing With Your Relationships

Nearly all of us value kindness. We try to be kind to others. We teach...

January 2022

January 25, 2022

Let’s Bring Kindness Back! Here’s How To Start

These three daily actions make up the 30-Day Kindness Challenge and they are absolutely transformative...

January 18, 2022

Male-Bashing Is Really No Joke!

Faithful, capable, responsible men are all around us. But if you watch TV, movies or...

January 04, 2022

Want A New Year’s Resolution That Will Actually Make a Real Difference?

There’s something helpful about New Year’s and the chance to evaluate what has worked well...

July 2021

July 27, 2021

Change The World With Kindness, One Person At A Time

Being willing to be an agent of change happens one person at a time.

January 2021

January 12, 2021

How To Tame Your Temper When You’re About To Lose It

In my research I’ve found that when we are angry with a friend or family...

November 2020

November 05, 2020

My Gift to You: A Devotion from “Find Joy”

Hello Friends, November ushers us into a season when we are more intentional about reflecting...

January 2020

January 14, 2020

Start the 30-Day Kindness Challenge Today and Give Your Valentine the Best Gift Ever

It seems like Christmas is barely over—we’re on celebration overload and are still struggling with...

August 2017

August 01, 2017

What You Need to Survive the Flight from Hell (Featuring a Screaming Baby)

Have you ever been in this awkward situation – and wondered what on earth to...

May 2017

May 01, 2017

Two Things You Need to Know About Yourself

If you’re reading this, I can tell you two things about yourself. First: You think...

March 2017

March 14, 2017

6 Reasons Sarcasm Kills Relationships

There are two types of people in the world: those with the quick zinger and...

January 2017

January 10, 2017

Want More Joy in Your Life and Relationships? Follow These Three Simple Steps

Does your mother-in-law make you want to pull your hair out by criticizing every move...

December 2016

December 20, 2016

Join Me Tonight for a Major Announcement on Facebook Live

MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT TONIGHT AT 8 pm ET VIA FACEBOOK LIVE! You know those days when...

September 2015

September 22, 2015

Time to Hang up the Hurt, Hang out Together, and Hang On

Dear Shaunti, My husband and I have been married for 20 years. I still care...