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Family, Parenting and Religion

2016-04-07T11:29:00-04:00

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Women: Three phrases to never say to your husband

Last updated on: April 7, 2016 at 11:29 am By Shaunti Feldhahn

Ladies, if there were a reality TV show like “What NOT to Wear,” but for relationships, these three things would be at the top of the list for “What NOT to say to your man.” Now, don’t get me wrong; I’ve actually said all these things at one point! You’ve probably said them, too. And you probably also saw the same thing I did: it never works out so well. Why? In research with thousands of men I learned these hurt far more than your man (or your son!) will ever let on. So let’s agree to put these on our no-no list. Read more

2018-01-31T09:47:58-04:00

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Secret #3 to a Highly Happy Marriage: Go to Bed Mad- Why Sleeping on it Might Be Smarter After All

Last updated on: January 31, 2018 at 9:47 am By Shaunti Feldhahn

Marriages aren’t made or broken through dramatic gestures. It’s the small, everyday actions and choices that determine success and happiness. Learn more about what the happiest couples do in The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages. In an attempt to ‘not let the sun go down on your anger’ many of us have attempted to resolve a conflict into the wee hours of the morning, resulting in saying things we didn’t really mean because we were too tired and just... Read more

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2016-02-04T13:39:31-04:00

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Guys: 3 ways to listen well to your wife

Last updated on: February 4, 2016 at 1:39 pm By Shaunti Feldhahn

Men, finish this sentence. Your wife is upset and says “I don’t want you to fix it, I just want you to ____.” Most of you have heard that… and most of you are confused because you think you are listening! So, guys, from our research about women here are 3 simple tips to clear up the confusion so you can listen in the way your wife is looking for. Realize: what is most important right now is not what... Read more

2018-01-16T08:35:27-04:00

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Secret #2 to a Highly Happy Marriage: Believe the Best

Last updated on: January 16, 2018 at 8:35 am By Shaunti Feldhahn

Marriages aren’t made or broken through dramatic gestures. It’s the small, everyday actions and choices that determine success and happiness. Learn more about what the happiest couples do in The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages. 97% of all spouses said they care about their mate. Those distancing feelings of hurt, anger and resentment in marriage arise a lot less often once you believe your spouse really does care about you. When you feel like your spouse doesn’t care, ask... Read more

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2018-01-17T09:24:40-04:00

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Some hysterical memes about the differences between men and women

Last updated on: January 17, 2018 at 9:24 am By Shaunti Feldhahn

People always send me memes about the differences between men and women. Some of them are too raunchy to post, but this one was (fairly) tame and made me laugh out loud. Mostly because A) it fits so well with my research but also B) because I see myself and Jeff in so many of these! (Except the picture about the woman’s desk being the one that is clean. Ahem.) Why do these strike such a nerve? Because most of... Read more

2018-01-07T10:12:38-04:00

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Men: Four phrases that make you a hero to your wife

Last updated on: January 7, 2018 at 10:12 am By Shaunti Feldhahn

Guys, I know from the For Men Only research that you want to make your wife happy. And in many ways you already do! But if you want to hit the happiness jackpot, here are the four phrases that (in roughly 80% of cases) will put you into hero category: 1. “Here, let me do that…” Saying “What can I do to help?” is fantastic. Stepping in and taking something off her hands feels to her as if a couple of... Read more

2018-01-09T17:00:13-04:00

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Secret #1 to a Highly Happy Marriage: Little Is Big

Last updated on: January 9, 2018 at 5:00 pm By Shaunti Feldhahn

Marriages aren’t made or broken through dramatic gestures. It’s the small, everyday actions and choices that determine success and happiness. Learn more about what the happiest couples do in The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages. Wish Shaunti could speak at an event in your area? You can help! Forward this piece or others to a leader at your organization or church, with a note of recommendation. They can reach Shaunti at [email protected]. Shaunti Feldhahn is the best-selling author of... Read more

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2022-11-01T17:00:50-04:00

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Dads: Four Phrases a Daughter Needs to Hear From You

Last updated on: November 1, 2022 at 5:00 pm By Shaunti Feldhahn

Dads, we know you love your daughter. And you know you love your daughter. But you might be surprised at much she needs to hear it. In the research with teens and preteens for For Parents Only, I found that these four phrases have a lot more impact than you might think. And as you’ll see, they are especially powerful and important when coming from a father. Use them often! 1. “I love you, sweetheart.” Until she is married, you... Read more

2018-01-02T13:20:31-04:00

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Moms: 4 things your son secretly wishes you knew about his temptations

Last updated on: January 2, 2018 at 1:20 pm By Shaunti Feldhahn

Moms: 4 things your son secretly wishes you knew about his temptations Even after years of researching what is in the heart and mind of men and boys, I still wasn’t quite ready when my pre-teen son began struggling with the same visual temptations as everyone else! In honor of all boys who want to do the right thing, here are four things every mom, especially, needs to know: 1. It starts young. Yes, I knew men and boys were... Read more

2017-12-12T09:25:41-04:00

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Want a Truly Happy Holiday? Four Ways You Should “Let It Go”

Last updated on: December 12, 2017 at 9:25 am By Shaunti Feldhahn

Embed from Getty Images “Let It Go” is more than a Frozen anthem for the pre-school set. It’s also a hard-core success strategy for giving yourself – and those around you — a truly happy holiday! I saw the power of a few of these little actions in the research for The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages, but it applies to all sorts of situations. Especially during the Christmas and New Year season, you’ll be shocked at the difference... Read more

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