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How to Effectively Boost Your Son’s Back-to-School Confidence

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 10:53 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

I just dropped off my 14-year-old son for the start of new year, at a brand-new new school. I had a lump in my throat, knowing how nervous he was about this new season. Every year brings a new set... Read more

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What You Need to Survive the Flight from Hell (Featuring a Screaming Baby)

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 10:54 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Have you ever been in this awkward situation – and wondered what on earth to do? I write this from 30,000 feet, heading home to my family. And about 5 rows behind me, there’s a very unhappy 20-month old. Actually... Read more

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4 Secrets in Your Man’s Heart (That You Need to Know)

Last updated on: January 6, 2020 at 6:58 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Ladies, if you could improve your relationship with your man by applying a few simple truths, would you?  Seriously: think about that question. Because I’ve found in my research with thousands of men for For Women Only, that the things... Read more

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2017-11-07T14:00:22-04:00

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When He Denies Needing Your Help, Here’s Why

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 2:00 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Ladies, has your man ever refused to admit that he should go see a doctor or claimed that he knows where he’s going when he is clearly lost? He’s not alone. A man will typically insist that “he’s fine,” that... Read more

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5 Reasons to Leave the Lights on for Sex

Last updated on: November 1, 2022 at 5:02 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Yes, the idea is scary for many women! But in my years of social research, I have uncovered many truths that men wish we knew, but they don’t know how to tell us. And, I heard the heart behind this... Read more

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3 Sneaky Ways You’re Making Yourself Stressed

Last updated on: September 20, 2024 at 12:54 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Do you have any idea what is the most frequent command in the Bible?  Believe it or not, it is not to “love one another” (although that’s up there!). Instead, the most frequent command — used more than 70 times —... Read more

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2017-11-07T14:00:58-04:00

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3 Simple Compliments That Will Please Your Wife

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 2:00 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Husbands, do you want to know what goes on inside your wife’s head? And do you wish there was something that you could say to make her feel deeply loved? While I cannot tell you everything she thinks, I can assure... Read more

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4 Ways to Spark More Romance in Your Relationship

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 2:01 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Ladies, have you been wishing your husband were more Prince Charming and a little less Homer Simpson lately? Been daydreaming that someday he would plan a special evening for just the two of you? But then is your next thought,... Read more

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Sex and Men’s True Hidden Desire

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 2:01 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Wives, does your husband want sex...again? It's not just a physical need -- it's also about emotions. Here are three things he’s not saying out loud when he comes to you for sex: 1. “I need to feel desirable.”  We women... Read more

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2 Reasons You Should NOT be Independent

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 2:02 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

You might look at that title and raise an eyebrow. Isn’t independence what we are going for? Well, yes, we are going for it: and it is one of the main reasons we have so much stress in our lives. In... Read more

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