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2019-09-30T20:21:11-04:00

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How Healthy He Is Matters to Her

Last updated on: September 30, 2019 at 8:21 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

I don’t think there are many who would be surprised to hear that in my interviews and surveys with over 1,000 men for my book For Women Only, men emphatically stated that it had an emotional impact to see that their wife was making an effort to take care of herself for him. It makes a guy feel loved because she obviously wants to be attractive to him. They don’t expect their wives to look like supermodels, but the care... Read more

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2017-11-07T13:54:37-04:00

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Want More Romance? The 4 Things That Should Be On Your “Don’t Do” List

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 1:54 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Who doesn’t love a good “To Do” list? I make them for everything…chores around the house, work related projects, doctor’s appointments — even things to put on future “To Do” lists! (Yes, I know that is a bit OCD…) But... Read more

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2017-11-07T13:54:43-04:00

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Kiss and Make Up? Not So Fast.

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 1:54 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

So, guys, you’ve just had a big fight with your wife and now you’re ready to cool off and mend the relationship. What better way to make up than to spend a little intimate time together, right? Just one little... Read more

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2017-11-07T13:54:49-04:00

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Wives, Fill Up Your Husband’s Mental Instagram

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 1:54 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Dear Shaunti: I read your book, For Women Only, and one thing you said scared me. You explained how men can’t not notice a woman with a good figure, but that many men try to look away so they don’t... Read more

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2017-11-07T13:56:32-04:00

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6 Tips From Coaches: How to Be a Good Sports Parent

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 1:56 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

The other day at a huge high school sports event, I watched a large, loud dad yelling at a ref. On the sidelines, the coach looked furious. Being abusive to an official not only models terrible behavior; it’s a terrible... Read more

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2017-11-07T13:56:38-04:00

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Big Fight? What Every Husband Needs to Know

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 1:56 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Men, have you ever found yourself feeling frustrated when, after a fight with your wife, she seems to doubt your relationship and commitment? It made perfect sense to you that you stopped talking to her when you were mad. You... Read more

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2017-11-07T13:56:44-04:00

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How to Respect Your Husband When You Really Don’t Trust Him

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 1:56 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Dear Shaunti, I recently read For Women Only and I now realize how important it is for my husband to know I respect him – which I do. But I come from a long line of “strong women” (as my dad puts... Read more

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2017-09-14T08:23:22-04:00

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Hurricane Hotties?

Last updated on: September 14, 2017 at 8:23 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

In the midst of so much deep hurricane news, can I tell you how happy this latest viral silliness made me and my teenage daughter – and apparently millions of other people? More than 100,000 comments have been posted on a simple selfie by some Gainesville, Florida police officers.  The men were getting ready to go about their duties for Hurricane Irma cleanup, and women readers quickly noticed that these were some seriously good-looking officers. Quickly, the Gainesville PD Facebook... Read more

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2017-11-07T13:56:55-04:00

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How to Stop Male Co-Workers’ Resentment … When You Work Flex-Time

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 1:56 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Dear Shaunti,  I work full-time, have 3 small children and work a flex schedule. This works really well for my family but my male co-workers get frustrated when they can’t reach me during traditional office hours. I’m getting all my... Read more

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2017-11-07T13:56:59-04:00

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The Shock Value of the Competent Dad

Last updated on: November 7, 2017 at 1:56 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

I remember a couple of years ago around Mother’s Day, Jeff and I were watching television one night when we saw a commercial for Publix, one of the big grocery-store chains in our area. The television ad showed several scenes... Read more

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