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2018-04-06T08:10:20-04:00

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4 Phrases That Make You Your Wife’s Hero

Last updated on: April 6, 2018 at 8:10 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

There’s a reason why superhero movies are so popular, right? What’s not to love about someone who defies all odds, defeats the villain, rescues the vulnerable and saves the day? And while most of you men do not wear a cape on a regular basis, I know from my research for the book For Men Only, that you guys want to make your wife happy (and have her view you as her personal superhero). For most men, the everyday things... Read more

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2018-04-04T09:03:21-04:00

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2 Mistakes We Make That Create Loneliness

Last updated on: April 4, 2018 at 9:03 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

There’s a certain amount of pride that goes along with doing things on your own, isn’t there? Think about those curtains you hung by yourself. Or that gourmet recipe you mastered. Or that presentation you put together that knocked the socks off your boss. Isn’t an independent spirit something we admire in others and work to achieve in ourselves? Well, yes, many of us do work toward being seen as independent in many aspects: but it can also be one... Read more

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2018-03-31T18:40:39-04:00

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A Permanent Love

Last updated on: March 31, 2018 at 6:40 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

What would you do for your spouse when they are suffering? Your child? Would you take their pain on yourself if you could?  I know many of us feel that we would. The depth of our love means we would take on any pain if we could relieve them of theirs. That fact, combined with what is going on with my Dad, is making me see Easter differently this year. As many of you know, my Dad had a massive... Read more

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2018-03-30T09:58:34-04:00

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“Things I’ve learned in the past week” by Charlyn Elliott (a special guest post)

Last updated on: March 30, 2018 at 9:58 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Hi friends – Yes, it is a cliché, but when it rains it pours! As y’all know, my dad had a stroke almost two weeks ago, and I’ve spent most of that time in and out of hospitals helping my mom.  My team was amazing: they stepped in and took everything off my plate so I could concentrate on what was more important.  Whew! But was that the end of it? Oh, no! My staff director’s father ALSO suddenly had... Read more

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2018-03-26T16:38:27-04:00

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A Tip for Finding Rest No Matter Where You Are

Last updated on: March 26, 2018 at 4:38 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

We are SO EXCITED that the launch date for Find Rest: A Women’s Devotional for Lasting Peace in a Busy Life is finally here! It’s been a stressful couple of weeks (see previous blog post about Shaunti’s dad in the hospital), but through it all, we have seen God’s faithfulness. We know His goodness passes all understanding. And we are confident He uses every circumstance for His glory. Thank you to everyone who pre-ordered the book! In fact, we had... Read more

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2018-03-23T14:46:16-04:00

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4 Reasons Your Teen Needs You To Be the Parent (Not a Friend)

Last updated on: March 23, 2018 at 2:46 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

As parents, we’ve all probably experienced the classic toddler temper tantrum—complete with them collapsing on the floor (usually a dirty one and most likely in a public place) while kicking and screaming the ever-enjoyable statement: you’re not the boss of me! Fast forward to the teen years. Thank goodness we’re not peeling our young adult children off the mall bathroom floor but the idea that we are still the “boss” can be an issue. Instead of a temper tantrum, we... Read more

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2018-03-22T08:22:26-04:00

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In the ICU With My Dad

Last updated on: March 22, 2018 at 8:22 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Well, this wasn’t where I was expecting to be today. I have had the craziest last month: fighting an intense sinus infection and bronchitis and traveling and speaking throughout – to awesome churches in Pennsylvania, Texas, Oregon, and Florida; a corporation in Baltimore; a school in Virginia. (That looks like too small of a list! I’m sure I’m forgetting someone!) I had a great time despite the coughing and wheezing, but boy was I looking forward to my upcoming three... Read more

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2018-03-16T13:07:56-04:00

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6 Tips Coaches Want Every Sports Parent To Know

Last updated on: March 16, 2018 at 1:07 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

“Come on, Ref, are you kidding me? That was a foul!” The latest in an ongoing barrage of insults by a parent in the stands had the coach looking furious on the sidelines. He knew that the impact of this dad’s rude behavior toward the referees went far beyond a few passionately expressed criticisms during intense moments of the game. The parent had modeled bad sportsmanship for all the players, had embarrassed his son, and had done nothing to improve... Read more

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2018-03-15T12:21:09-04:00

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Raise Your Hand If You’re Exhausted and Need Rest

Last updated on: March 15, 2018 at 12:21 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Our society is tired. Dog tired. And women, specifically, seem to be the most tired of all. That’s why we are tempted by the latest and greatest pill, potion, powder, or diet that will give us more energy. Am I right, ladies? Still, no matter what solution we try, the exhaustion and discontent still sink back in. Well, I have something exciting to share! I’ve been working on a very personal project unlike anything I’ve done before, and it’s about... Read more

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2018-03-12T18:25:04-04:00

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4 Ways to Help Your Husband Up His Romantic Game

Last updated on: March 12, 2018 at 6:25 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

My friend Michelle once told me about a Valentine’s Day a couple years ago when her husband’s less-than-romantic gift left her feeling a bit hurt. She was hoping for flowers and a date night out. You know what the gift was? A vacuum! While I am sure he meant well because they needed a vacuum, he ended up making her feel less like a woman and more like a maid. How about you? Been daydreaming about that romantic gesture that... Read more

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