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2021-01-19T00:43:01-04:00

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Commit to Your Marriage By Going “All-In”

Last updated on: January 19, 2021 at 12:43 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

When too much independence is carried over into marriage, it can create walls between spouses. Read more

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2021-01-12T00:06:29-04:00

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How To Tame Your Temper When You’re About To Lose It

Last updated on: January 12, 2021 at 12:06 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

In my research I’ve found that when we are angry with a friend or family member, most of us handle it wrong. When you feel your temperature rising, here’s how you can handle it without losing your cool. Read more

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2021-01-07T15:16:26-04:00

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When You Tease Your Husband, It’s Really No Joke

Last updated on: January 7, 2021 at 3:16 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Learn from the example of highly happy couples to prevent THIS from happening in your marriage.  Read more

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2021-01-04T20:52:59-04:00

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Here Are The 10 Most Popular Blog Posts From 2020

Last updated on: January 4, 2021 at 8:52 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

If you missed any of these posts the first time around, here is your chance to get caught up! Read more

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2020-12-29T23:35:47-04:00

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When There is Still Good to be Found in 2020

Last updated on: December 29, 2020 at 11:35 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Well, friends, the finish line is in sight and we’re about to break the tape. We are this close to completing the tumultuous year of 2020. But before we cross the finish line, swap high fives, and step into the fresh new year of 2021, let’s take a few minutes to look back and count our 2020 blessings. Yes, 2020 has gotten a reputation as the terrible, horrible, no good, very bad year. But there were blessings. Because no matter... Read more

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2020-12-23T20:59:41-04:00

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A Weary, Weary World Rejoices

Last updated on: December 23, 2020 at 8:59 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Most of us, this year, are far more aware of our utter need for God than ever before. One word captures it all. Emmanuel. “God with us.” Read more

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2020-12-16T23:04:12-04:00

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These Holiday Gifts Are The Most Valuable To The People You Love

Last updated on: December 16, 2020 at 11:04 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Instead of spending your time and money getting people more stuff, plan to give something a little more personal, much less expensive, and powerfully transforming this year. Read more

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2020-12-14T14:23:34-04:00

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What To Do When You Want To Be Anywhere But Here

Last updated on: December 14, 2020 at 2:23 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Sometimes we long for change in our lives but we just can’t seem to make it happen. And sometimes changes we don’t want are forced upon us. The pandemic alone has dramatically altered many aspects of our lives: work, school, church and home. And we might be surprised at where we’ve landed, either temporarily or for good. But wherever you find yourself right now, God put you there for a reason. He has a purpose for you. I’d like to... Read more

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2020-12-09T01:15:15-04:00

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Announcing a New Resource for Thriving in Love and Money

Last updated on: December 9, 2020 at 1:15 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

If you or your church are pondering whether to do a money management course in January (such as a Dave Ramsey or Crown Financial class), I want to propose a completely new idea for you: We’ve been doing money management programs in the wrong order! Nearly every such program starts with teaching and encouraging the technical elements of money management – how to budget, get out of debt, and so on. But the vast majority of couples – 77%! –... Read more

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2020-12-02T23:13:36-04:00

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War, Women and Backpacks: A Story of Faith, Hope and Love

Last updated on: December 2, 2020 at 11:13 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

I’ve often written about the importance of generosity and sacrifice in creating thriving personal relationships. They are also critical in shaping how we view our world –and softening our hearts to something we may not have seen before. I want to give you a real-world example of generosity and sacrifice—and encourage you to join in a worthy cause if you are looking for an amazing Christmas present (or three!) this year. Jeff and I have a close friend from our... Read more

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