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2021-04-08T00:29:48-04:00

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Four Phrases Your Wife Would Love To Hear From You

Last updated on: April 8, 2021 at 12:29 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Husbands, when your wife is facing tough times or is weary, and it’s in your heart to help her in some way, you might think, “If I only knew just the right thing to say to make her feel better and let her know how much I love her.” Read more

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2021-03-31T20:31:03-04:00

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I Am Relearning How To Find Rest—And I Need Your Story

Last updated on: March 31, 2021 at 8:31 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Three years ago, I started a new season—writing not only research-based relationship books, but women’s devotionals as well. And it is just slightly ironic that I personally am having to re-learn all the lessons of that devotional in a whole new way right now. Read more

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2021-03-29T17:59:57-04:00

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Make Your Marriage Happier By Keeping Score And Giving Back

Last updated on: March 29, 2021 at 5:59 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Have you ever found yourself keeping a list in your head of the wrongs (big and small) that your spouse has committed in your marriage? It’s so easy to hold onto memories of hurtful comments and selfish actions, or to keep a running tally of our spouse’s personal flaws. Well, according to 1 Corinthians 13:5, love is not self-seeking and keeps no record of wrongs. It’s not biblical or beneficial to keep score in marriage by tracking the negative aspects... Read more

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2021-03-24T22:50:16-04:00

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Finding Joy in the Most Unlikely Places

Last updated on: March 24, 2021 at 10:50 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

True community is created by encouragement of others—even in the most difficult of circumstances. Read more

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2021-03-22T22:49:04-04:00

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How to Raise a Resilient Child and Why It Matters

Last updated on: March 22, 2021 at 10:49 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Resilience is perhaps the most important quality a person can have, and, therefore, perhaps the most important quality you can instill in your child. Read more

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2021-03-18T09:25:13-04:00

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Stop Hooking Up In Your Marriage

Last updated on: March 18, 2021 at 9:25 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

One of the foundational truths about sex is that God designed it to be intertwined with spiritual and relational significance. Unfortunately, many believe having sex can be an act as morally neutral as what we chose to have for breakfast. Read more

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2021-03-16T00:09:40-04:00

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What I’m Loving: March 2021

Last updated on: March 16, 2021 at 12:09 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Although I won’t do this often, I simply want to point out little things that might bring a little joy and happiness to your day. Read more

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2021-03-10T23:27:08-04:00

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Make Sure Your Wife Knows That She’s Beautiful to You!

Last updated on: March 10, 2021 at 11:27 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Men, your wife—at her most decked out and when she’s a bit disheveled—needs to know you think she’s beautiful. Read more

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2021-03-08T23:35:26-04:00

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5 Ways Parents Can Raise Leaders

Last updated on: March 8, 2021 at 11:35 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Today we are sharing a guest blog from Alli Worthington while Shaunti is in this season of cancer treatments. As a mother of five sons, Alli shares some ways she and her husband are helping to raise godly leaders. Read more

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2021-03-02T23:43:07-04:00

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The Next Step in My Cancer Journey

Last updated on: March 2, 2021 at 11:43 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

But sometimes, just to encourage us, God illuminates our path not with a soft, gentle lamp light but a lightning bolt: STEP HERE! That happened on this journey recently, and it has set the course for the next few months ahead. Read more

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