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2022-08-10T19:20:03-04:00

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Why Can’t We Just Go To Sleep?

Last updated on: August 10, 2022 at 7:20 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Many men have asked me over the years, Why is it that my wife so often wants to talk about the deep issues of life, marriage, and family right as we are thinking about heading to bed? Read more

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2022-08-01T19:00:23-04:00

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In Case You Missed It—Blogs and Updates

Last updated on: August 1, 2022 at 7:00 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

  I figured since we were halfway through 2022, I wanted to send out an “In Case You Missed It” email. My team and I are busy with so many projects including finalizing details on my new research book, The Secrets of Sex and Marriage (and the exciting videos and resources that go along with it!), working on my upcoming devotional, Find Hope, and gearing up for a season of speaking events, marriage retreats . . . and of course,... Read more

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2022-07-25T21:46:52-04:00

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Want to Fight Anxiety? Point Out the Positive!

Last updated on: July 25, 2022 at 9:46 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

It’s a fact there are so many beautiful things going on in our world—and in our own homes! Here's how to recognize them. Read more

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2022-07-18T22:19:39-04:00

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Why Does My Wife Expect Me to Read Her Mind?

Last updated on: July 18, 2022 at 10:19 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Recently, we tackled “How to read your wife’s mind.” This time, we tackle the question of why your wife might expect you to read her mind in the first place! These articles are part of our ongoing initiative to equip engaged and newlywed couples. Please pass it along to someone who might find it helpful! Or sign up to receive these research-based weekly tips yourself. Why does my wife or girlfriend expect me to know what she’s thinking? This is... Read more

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2022-07-12T16:08:23-04:00

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How to Read Your Wife’s Mind

Last updated on: July 12, 2022 at 4:08 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

This article is part of our ongoing initiative to help engaged and newlywed couples start out right. Please pass it along to someone who might find it helpful! Or sign up to receive these research-based weekly tips yourself. Guys, there’s a lot going on in your wife’s or girlfriend’s mind—and you can learn to read it. No, there’s no such thing as actual mind-reading (sorry)—but there is a way to confidently understand what is going on in there, rather than... Read more

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2022-07-07T00:59:32-04:00

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Top Marriage Advice for Newlyweds (and Everyone Else) About Men and Women

Last updated on: July 7, 2022 at 12:59 am   By Shaunti Feldhahn

This series has been designed to equip engaged and newlywed couples—and anyone else trying to create a great marriage! Over 18 years of research and 12 nationally-representative studies with more than 40,000 men and women, we’ve identified some of the most simple but essential factors that couples need to know. This is the fifth and final article in the series. Share it with those getting married! I still remember staring in disbelief at the man across the table, as he... Read more

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2022-06-29T21:38:12-04:00

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Top Marriage Advice for Newlyweds (and Everyone Else) About Sex

Last updated on: June 29, 2022 at 9:38 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Here are three key tips about intimacy that will help avoid common issues and create a thriving sex life instead. Read more

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2022-06-22T22:45:38-04:00

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What I’m Loving Lately—Summer Edition

Last updated on: June 22, 2022 at 10:45 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Hi Friends, Happy Summer! I don’t know where you live but Atlanta is in full summer mode and under a “heat dome” so it’s hot—TOO HOT! I thought it would be a good time to share some things I’m loving lately, especially since I’m in the middle of two big projects: my latest research-based book is about to head to production (Releasing February 7, 2023) and I’m beginning to pull together my newest devotional, Find Hope (set to release in... Read more

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2022-06-13T23:00:20-04:00

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Cheering Dads in the Daily Things

Last updated on: June 13, 2022 at 11:00 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

There is great power in trusting and cheering on your man in the little daily things of life—especially in his little daily actions as a father. Read more

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2022-06-07T22:24:58-04:00

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Top Marriage Advice for Newlyweds (and Everyone Else) About Money

Last updated on: June 7, 2022 at 10:24 pm   By Shaunti Feldhahn

Tensions and disagreements around money are among the most common frustrations in marriage. The good news is: they don’t have to be! Read more

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