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September 2022

September 20, 2022

Need Rest? Finding It May Look Different for Men and Women

Did you know that finding rest may look different for men and women? Even after...

September 08, 2022

The Big Blind Spot That Is Messing With Your Relationships

Nearly all of us value kindness. We try to be kind to others. We teach...

August 2022

August 30, 2022

When Knee-Jerk Reactions Cause Money Tension In Marriage

We’ve all been there. The plane ticket for your weekend getaway costs more than you...

May 2021

May 17, 2021

What Do These Scars Mean?

A guest blog from Taylor Scott. Do you have any scars? I have too many to...

April 2021

April 22, 2021

Getting Out of ANY Personal Rut

By now, you may have seen this very short and funny video. A video that...

January 2021

January 05, 2021

Here Are The 10 Most Popular Blog Posts From 2020

If you missed any of these posts the first time around, here is your chance...

December 2020

December 30, 2020

When There is Still Good to be Found in 2020

Well, friends, the finish line is in sight and we’re about to break the tape....

December 24, 2020

A Weary, Weary World Rejoices

Most of us, this year, are far more aware of our utter need for God...

December 03, 2020

War, Women and Backpacks: A Story of Faith, Hope and Love

I’ve often written about the importance of generosity and sacrifice in creating thriving personal relationships....

November 2020

November 25, 2020

Why I’m Thankful I Have Covid-19

Dear Friends, Yep, it’s official. I was sick all last week and received my lab...

November 12, 2020

What Happens When God Interrupts Us In The Midst Of Our Stress?

Every time I think about how God redirected my steps, I’m reminded that His plans...

November 10, 2020

This One Thing Makes a Huge Difference for Your Teen

Parents, I have some encouraging news for you. Although we’re all suffering from just a...

November 05, 2020

My Gift to You: A Devotion from “Find Joy”

Hello Friends, November ushers us into a season when we are more intentional about reflecting...

November 03, 2020

For the Next Few Weeks, We Have a Choice to Make

In a few hours, the polls will close. And for the next few days or...

October 2020

October 29, 2020

Exciting Announcement: How to Find Joy in 2020

Friends, I am so excited to finally share with you my latest devotional, Find Joy:...

October 22, 2020

A House Divided? Handling Hot Political Discussions Without Getting Burned

I recently shared my outlook on the upcoming presidential election, our national discord, the possibility...

April 2020

April 23, 2020

The Emerge Stronger Series: Come Together Around Money (It’s Easier Than You Think!)

This is Part 4 of a series that looks at the research-based solutions to navigating...

July 2019

July 01, 2019

Tired of Your Wife Constantly Texting You?

Recently, a man at one of my conferences spoke up about a marital issue that...

May 2019

May 01, 2019

The Two Words Your Husband Needs

After another heated argument, Josh and Hannah came back together with calmer attitudes to sort...

November 2018

November 30, 2018

After You’re Married, Keep Dating Your Wife (It is Much Easier Than You Think)

Guys, in Part 1 we revealed that your wife doesn’t feel forever loved and happy...

September 2018

September 20, 2018

Tell Your Wife She Is Beautiful

Husbands, get in the habit of telling your wife she is beautiful. Every little girl...

September 05, 2018

Set Aside the “Date Night” Pressure

This article is part of our August and September 2018 Guest Blog series. During a...

August 2018

August 31, 2018

Maintain Your Schedule Sanity While Supporting Your Teen’s Success

It’s back-to-school season, and with the new school year kids will have the chance to...

August 10, 2018

What To Say To Your Teenage Son When He’s Struggling (Hint: it’s not “Man up!”)

Now that the new school year is upon us, I’m reminded of a woman who...

April 2018

April 26, 2018

Grumpy Husband at the End of the Day? Here’s How to Change That

When your husband walks through the door at the end of the day, is he...

March 2018

March 05, 2018

6 Ways Sarcasm is Hurting Your Relationships

The movie Lily’s husband had picked out for them to watch made her hoot with...

January 2018

January 25, 2018

3 Reasons Your Wife Won’t Tell You Exactly What She Wants

Men, here’s the bottom line: practice studying your wife. Don’t roll your eyes whenever you...

November 2017

November 08, 2017

Love and Laughter: How Humor Can Ease Relationship Tension

Learn what is guaranteed to elicit a smile from your partner. When tensions run high,...

October 2017

October 27, 2017

Does Your Kid Make You Feel Like You Can Do Nothing Right?

(a special guest post by Debbie Hitchcock) Last week I felt like everything I did...

October 17, 2017

Motive Matters: Believing the Best of Your Spouse

Dear Shaunti, In one of your books, you say it’s important to believe the best...

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