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September 2025

September 05, 2025

6 Ways to Talk about Gender Differences (Part 2)

I think we can probably all agree that we are living in a weird moment....

September 04, 2025

6 Ways to Talk about Gender Differences (Part 1)

“What do you say to people in today’s cultural space who insist that gender differences...

August 2025

August 14, 2025

What Your Husband Is Really Thinking When He Wants Sex

Wondering why your husband wants sex? Explore the emotional side of his desire, how intimacy...

June 2025

June 24, 2025

What I’m Loving Lately – Summer 2025

Sometimes it’s good to simply stop and laugh out loud. Or even to tear up...

May 2025

May 29, 2025

8 False Expectations Newlyweds Should Avoid (Part 3)

Expectations are appropriate in marriage, right? Things should be a certain way. We stepped on...

May 07, 2025

Fame, Faith, and Putting Marriage First 

This is the story of this week’s podcast guests, our friends Montell and Kristin Jordan....

April 2025

April 08, 2025

How to Deal with Difficult People (part 2)

If someone is being “difficult,” maybe they’re deeply unhappy and isolated. Maybe they are in...

April 01, 2025

How to Deal with Difficult People (part 1)

Being kind to difficult people is just so dang hard. But as emphasized in The...

March 2025

March 25, 2025

Perfect Practice Makes Perfect (Part 2)

Gratitude is one of those things that is worth every ounce of practice we can...

February 2025

February 12, 2025

From Struggle to Strength: A Marriage Transformation Story

In Episode 2 of I Wish You Could Hear This, our dear friends Scott and...

January 2025

January 28, 2025

Welcome to Our Podcast – and our Crazy, Unscripted Story!

On I Wish You Could Hear This, Jeff and I offer proven steps to help you thrive...

January 16, 2025

I Wish You Could Hear This

On I Wish You Could Hear This, my husband Jeff and I will offer the...

January 07, 2025

Top 10 Blog Posts from 2024

As many of you know, each year we unveil our annual roundup of the top...

December 2024

December 31, 2024

Looking Back, and Looking Ahead

But of course, the New Year is especially time to look ahead! There are several...

December 03, 2024

Are You “Falling Out of Love” … or is it Burnout?

Some marital stress is inevitable; every relationship has its share of challenges that come from...

August 2024

August 20, 2024

6 Tips to Trade Helplessness for Healthy Control (Part 3)

This is part 3 of a four-part series on how to root out the pattern...

July 2024

July 30, 2024

Closing Our Money “Worry Windows”

Imagine the human mind as a computer screen, with each thought, feeling, or worry as...

July 16, 2024

Lessons on Perspective in the Dominican Republic

Nothing will shift your perspective more quickly than seeing great need and recognizing the many...

July 09, 2024

Back-To-School Prep – Add Kindness To The List

Help your child come up with something nice to do for their person every day....

July 02, 2024

When Life (and Relationships) Aren’t What You Hoped (Part 3)

We’ve spent the last two weeks exploring three critical (but oh so hard) steps that...

June 2024

June 18, 2024

When Life (and Relationships) Aren’t What You Hoped (Part 1)

How do we handle these situations with grace, steadiness, and joy, instead of frustration, chaos,...

June 06, 2024

6 Steps to Change Your Marriage For the Better (Part 1)

The Married With Benefits podcast is designed to help you apply all of these steps,...

May 2024

May 07, 2024

A Mother’s Day Message of Hope

With Mother’s Day coming up, and with my own sweet mom navigating a recent health...

May 02, 2024

When You Hear Something that Rocks Your World

I recently shared a meal with someone who was getting more and more agitated as...

April 2024

April 02, 2024

How to Handle Unmet Money Expectations (Part 1)

This is a two-part series on how to view money as a source of connection...

March 2024

March 21, 2024

What I’m Loving Lately—March 2024 Edition

Hi friends! To adjust the lyrics from the old Rodgers & Hammerstein song, spring is...

March 05, 2024

What Wives Need Most From Their Husbands (Part 2)

In our For Men Only research, we found that fully 82% of women have an...

January 2024

January 23, 2024

What Forgiveness Can Teach Us About Creating a Thriving Life

n this life we are 100% sure to be hurt by others. And without forgiveness,...

January 18, 2024

What a Unicorn Whale Can Teach Us About Marriage

In other words: Because you saw something from under the surface that was visible for...

January 09, 2024

What an Attitude Adjustment Can Teach Us

If we want to make changes in our lives and relationships in the new year,...

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