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June 2021

June 24, 2021

What Daughters Need To Hear From Their Dads

Dads—you’ve been there for first words, first steps, first stumbles. We know how much you...

June 15, 2021

Here’s What Your Man Is Really Thinking

If we want to improve our relationship with the man we love, we must be...

June 10, 2021

When the Enemy is Attacking Your Marriage

Five actions to take when your marriage is under attack. By Ashley Willis.

June 08, 2021

Why Teenage Boys Should Be Courageous and Ask the Girl Out!

Guys, to build yourself as a person and as a leader, it is so crucial...

June 04, 2021

Recognize Your Man’s Romantic Intent When He Wants to Do Things Together

Most men (84%!) care about romance just as much as their wives do! Romance often...

June 01, 2021

Cozy Little Fires Everywhere: Small Ways to Warm Up Your Marriage

Here's how to build that all-important connection--a cozy little fire--with your spouse. Article by Ted...

May 2021

May 27, 2021

Divorce Rates are NOT What You Think They Are!

The divorce rate for society as a whole is not 50% and has never been...

May 25, 2021

How I Stopped Yelling at My Kids

Today we are sharing a guest blog from Crystal Paine while Shaunti is in this season...

May 20, 2021

This One Habit Will Be Game-Changing for Others … and Yourself!

Kindness is a superpower. It can improve relationships, make life better, and transform our culture....

May 17, 2021

What Do These Scars Mean?

A guest blog from Taylor Scott. Do you have any scars? I have too many to...

May 13, 2021

Joy Comes In the Morning: It’s OK to Resolve Your Disagreement Tomorrow

Sometimes the stress of work, family, and finances simply leaves spouses too drained to work...

May 11, 2021

A Letter To Our 2021 Graduating High School Seniors

Here are a few things we want you to know as you head off into...

May 06, 2021

All the Mommy Ladies: What You Said About Being a Mom

I once heard an exhausted mom say, “If God wanted me to really love parenting,...

May 04, 2021

When Your Triggers Get Tripped In Relationships

Ask yourself, what is the number one thing that is putting you over the edge?...

April 2021

April 28, 2021

A Prayer That Left Me Gloriously Ruined

We often hear pastors contemplate the Fatherhood of God, a wonderful and true doctrine. But...

April 27, 2021

Why Your Attitude Affects Others (and Your Health!)

Our attitude is so overwhelmingly important, it doesn’t just impact our mental health but our...

April 22, 2021

Getting Out of ANY Personal Rut

By now, you may have seen this very short and funny video. A video that...

April 20, 2021

10 Ways To Help a Friend Going Through a Divorce

Every marriage is different, and every divorce will be different. But one thing is the...

April 15, 2021

Flex Your Ability to be Happier

A recent study reviewed 174 other studies about marriage and discovered that all happy marriages...

April 13, 2021

Why Your “Type” Isn’t Always Good For You

Today we are sharing a guest blog from Debra Fileta, Licensed Professional Counselor, while Shaunti is...

April 08, 2021

Four Phrases Your Wife Would Love To Hear From You

Husbands, when your wife is facing tough times or is weary, and it’s in your...

April 01, 2021

I Am Relearning How To Find Rest—And I Need Your Story

Three years ago, I started a new season—writing not only research-based relationship books, but women’s...

March 2021

March 30, 2021

Make Your Marriage Happier By Keeping Score And Giving Back

Have you ever found yourself keeping a list in your head of the wrongs (big...

March 25, 2021

Finding Joy in the Most Unlikely Places

True community is created by encouragement of others—even in the most difficult of circumstances.

March 23, 2021

How to Raise a Resilient Child and Why It Matters

Resilience is perhaps the most important quality a person can have, and, therefore, perhaps the...

March 18, 2021

Stop Hooking Up In Your Marriage

One of the foundational truths about sex is that God designed it to be intertwined...

March 16, 2021

What I’m Loving: March 2021

Although I won’t do this often, I simply want to point out little things that...

March 11, 2021

Make Sure Your Wife Knows That She’s Beautiful to You!

Men, your wife—at her most decked out and when she’s a bit disheveled—needs to know...

March 09, 2021

5 Ways Parents Can Raise Leaders

Today we are sharing a guest blog from Alli Worthington while Shaunti is in this...

March 04, 2021

The Next Step in My Cancer Journey

But sometimes, just to encourage us, God illuminates our path not with a soft, gentle...

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