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October 2023

October 03, 2023

You Encouragers Need Encouragement Too!

One of our main goals as a ministry is to equip you because you are...

September 2023

September 28, 2023

The Sky Is Not Falling—3 Ways to Help Our Kids Find Calm in Chaos

We all know societal challenges are real. And some people are absolutely called to address...

September 19, 2023

Is Marriage Really on Its Way Out?

Now those concerns overall are real; the data shows both trends are going the wrong...

September 12, 2023

Four Ways to Find Peace in Any Storm

I don’t know why our son had to go through epilepsy or I had to...

September 05, 2023

What Every Empty Nest Parent Needs to Know (Part 3)

Are you adjusting to an empty nest? This series will help! Part 1 and Part...

August 2023

August 29, 2023

What Every Empty Nest Parent Needs to Know (Part 2)

No matter how much great groundwork we’ve laid by nudging our kids toward autonomy in...

August 22, 2023

What Every Empty Nest Parent Needs to Know (Part 1)

So in the span of a few very short weeks or months, as our kids...

August 17, 2023

What I’m Loving Lately – August 2023 edition

Well, the summer heat has been on (literally) and the school year is beginning again...

August 08, 2023

The Saver-Spender Disconnect in Marriage – and How to Handle It

By Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn Are you and your spouse on two different pages around...

August 01, 2023

Debunking the Bad Rap Against Evangelical Men

I have been waiting for a year to write this blog. (Actually, I’ve been waiting...

July 2023

July 25, 2023

What To Do When You Think “What I Need is Obvious—Why Aren’t You Doing It?”

. If we want to create a great relationship, we have to recognize that what...

July 18, 2023

The Sneaky Solution to Finding Peace Instead of Stress (Part 3)

Friends, in the end, if we decide to trust God with our seasons of life,...

July 11, 2023

The Sneaky Solution to Finding Peace Instead of Stress (Part 2)

It is very easy to feel inferior with this snapshot of womanhood taped to my...

July 06, 2023

The Sneaky Solution to Finding Peace Instead of Stress (Part 1)

Have you ever stopped to think about all the events that would appear on the...

June 2023

June 27, 2023

What Every Christian Should Do in Times of Fear

The body of Christ has an awesome responsibility to an anxious world. We know what...

June 22, 2023

Letting Dads be Dads – Even When it is Terrifying (Part 2)

Our online survey respondents really admire their men! Here’s a sampling of how respondents answered...

June 15, 2023

Letting Dads be Dads – Even When it is Terrifying (Part 1)

In honor of Father’s Day, this two-part blog is a follow up to an earlier...

June 06, 2023

4 Shifts That Brought a Struggling Marriage Back From the Brink

In the nationally-representative survey that undergirds the The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages, Shaunti...

June 01, 2023

Rocky Finances Don’t Have to Mean a Rocky Relationship!

Our research found that when a couple has friction over money, it’s not about the...

May 2023

May 23, 2023

The Church That Talked About Sex (Part 2)

If your leaders know there is an interest in discussing sexual intimacy from a biblical...

May 16, 2023

The Church That Talked About Sex (Part 1)

Thirty years ago, the church just didn’t talk about sex. The brave pastors who tackled...

May 09, 2023

“I Got Divorced too Quickly… but Maybe it Can Work”

For those who newly have hope – reach out for support, especially through your church....

May 02, 2023

4 Easy Ways to Start Helping Kids Understand Their Feelings

The time is now to help our kids understand their emotions and for us to...

April 2023

April 25, 2023

The Good Thing About Being the Bad Guy, Part 2

being the parent rather than the friend doesn’t mean swinging the pendulum of rules enforcement...

April 20, 2023

The Good Thing About Being the Bad Guy, Part 1

This is a two-part blog to encourage and equip parents of teenagers. In this part...

April 13, 2023

When She Has the Stronger Sex Drive; Part One.

Conflict over sexual desire is often really difficult for couples to work through, especially since...

April 06, 2023

God is on the Move at Harvard – and in our World

The gathering of hundreds of Christians at Harvard last weekend is only part of what...

March 2023

March 30, 2023

8 Relationship Roadblocks that Sabotage Young Couples – Part 3

Many couples focus on concepts like “compatibility” when considering whether to tie the knot with...

March 21, 2023

8 Relationship Roadblocks that Sabotage Young Couples – Part 2

This is Part 2 of a three-part series for young twenty-something couples pondering marriage –...

March 16, 2023

8 Relationship Roadblocks that Sabotage Young Couples – Part 1

Why are people waiting longer? Are young adults maturing more slowly? Seeking adventure and independence...

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