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A Tale of Two Men—And What It Means for You

Last updated on: August 23, 2022 at 6:00 am   by Shaunti Feldhahn

A Tale of Two Men—And What It Means for You 2022-08-22T23:07:51-04:00 Shaunti Feldhahn

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A request for men: What do you most want people to know about how you feel in this area?

So now, let me ask men: Do you have anything you want to share? Do you feel this pressure to hold back from helping? Do you not? What do you do about it? What should women do?

I’d love your anonymous comments and advice in this form. I’ll compile what everyone sends me and write a follow-up blog about all the anonymous comments I get.

Let me end with this. So much of what we are told today is that there is no real difference between men and women, nothing that makes us special and unique from each other. But I hope each of us can resolve to share a different message that celebrates how we are made.

And as one small step in that direction: if you know a young college guy with short blond hair and a “Wake” sweatshirt who was flying Delta from Philadelphia to Atlanta on the night of August 21 . . . tell him he did good.


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