Get off of this life-destroying ride

Last updated on: December 28, 2014 at 4:06 pm by Cynthia Occelli

Get off of this life-destroying ride 2014-12-28T16:06:44-08:00 Cynthia Occelli

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Most of us move through life carrying a dossier of beliefs taken from the past and, to greater and lesser degrees, bearing no truth. The falsity of the beliefs is irrelevant because what we call true is true for us. Like a virus, erroneous beliefs spread to the minds of others where they multiply, magnify and circulate. In time, entire populations carry similar thoughts and because “everyone knows it’s true”, it is. This cycle whirs like an everlasting merry-go-round and it feels “normal” to ride it. As we spin in circles, the desires and dreams we had as a child blur and the day comes when we can’t really remember what they were. The world will tell you that’s not important. What is important is fitting in, getting by and waiting for the next bad thing to happen. There’s a lot of power behind these ideas. Fitting in limits rejection. Getting by keeps us going. Waiting for the next bad thing to happen is called being prepared. It takes a brave person to challenge the collective consciousness, but brave you must be. Nothing matters more. Fitting in may limit rejection from others, yet it comes at the price of self rejection. Feelings of insecurity, self disapproval, disappointment and inadequacy are fed by the lackluster results of living for society instead of your soul. Getting by is the ultimate oppressor of joy. One cannot enjoy the magnificence of life while toiling away for just enough. Something has to shift. For some that shift is a change in lifestyle, embracing simplicity, peace and ease by downsizing or reducing responsibilities. For others, the shift is in employment, or entrepreneurship. It’s stepping out on sound reasoning and surrendered faith, reaching for more. Ending the cycle of getting by, creates the space to carry out the Divine obligation of expressing your gifts (every single person has gifts). Waiting for the next bad thing to happen is, as Rev. Michael Beckwith puts it, “Like paying interest on money you haven’t borrowed”. The deck is stacked against us. People, TV, radio, the internet, billboards, newspapers, magazines and mail are inundating us with fear messages convincing us that we’re not safe, we need drugs, we can’t trust anyone, we’re in trouble and, (thanks to them) stress is killing us. If everyday we were told of the marriages that successfully reconciled, the people who found a way to thrive in a tough economy, the children born to those who desperately wanted them, the artists whose work caught on like wildfire, the animals that were rescued and all the people who healed from from illness and depression, we would live from the knowing that:

This is a friendly universe & countless wonderful things are happening this very instant.

We would move through the world feeling safe, loving ourselves and others and paying attention to the things that make our heart’s sing. Life, no matter how many years you live, is short. It’s well past time to wake up and step off of the merry-go-round. ~ Cynthia

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